i dont really have one , since i moved into my own place , i rarely see or speak to any of them going to vist my dad tomorrow be the first time i have seen him in over a year , bar the odd phonecall we're just not that close
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i dont really have one , since i moved into my own place , i rarely see or speak to any of them going to vist my dad tomorrow be the first time i have seen him in over a year , bar the odd phonecall we're just not that close
I don't really have one. It's kind of a hate hate relationship no matter what kind of things I try.
Pretty bad with dad, due to the fact that he's an alcoholic who ran out on me and my mom.
Okay with mom: I see her every weekend or so, but being away at college has definitely made things hard. She's moving into a 1-bedroom and getting rid of my room soon, unfortunately.
Sorry to be a downer. xD
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They hate me no matter what I do. Now all I get to do is harbor hate for someone that I actually looked at like I didn't hate him and that thought disgusts me I hate the frell so much.
Massive abuse on someone who was only made to look like they actually deserve it.
Last edited by rso0; 02-08-2013 at 09:20 PM.
Wait. So are you going to send her away while you stay in Japan? While moving is hard, if she stays there she might get to be bilingual without all the classes and whatnot, which is quite an edge in and of itself, and can get you a good job alone.
Granted a lot of Japanese speak English very well. But people who can get a US security clearance and speak fluent Japanese? Not so many.
Or do gobs of Marines learn the language while they're there? I guess I don't know.
So he goes somewhere in the evenings? Or just that he's home while you're away? What about weekends?
You mean like dating stuff? Or are you doing "bad things" in their opinion and they don't know how to deal with that?
So are you older? They might have meant to be like that with both of you and just lost control. Maybe you get a bunch of privileges or support he doesn't?
You mean they don't like anime? These days there's a lot of stuff with very broad appeal. Ghost in the Shell for example.
Do you call and whatnot? E-mail maybe?
Heh. Out of curiousity, what did your dad do that made him "the best". Did you do stuff together, or was it just how he'd treat you over dinner?
As for the college thing, well, they might just be trying to help. There is a bit of wisdom in majoring in something useful and minoring in what you love. Alternatively you could try looking up employment rates and median incomes for what you want to do. Some things like that aren't as bad as one might think, even if the job you might get isn't exactly your dream. (I.e. a music composition major teaching high school band.)
You and your dad do anything together, or is he just a decent roomate?
How did that go? Were you at least close before you moved out?
I typically get along with my family rather well, my brother and I get along in a best friend sort of way (we're 2 years apart), my younger sister is sweet as can be (she's 9 years younger than me) so we get along well of course, my father is a great guy but we butt heads a lot on certain things like politics and religion (I'm an agnostic who's not particularly politically biased and he's a christian conservative), I also get along with my mother well as of late, I've been building a good relationship with her over the past 2 years since she stopped drinking and finally started being an actual mother.
Were not close at all.
I rarely spend time with them, and when i do we hardly speak to eachother...
Nahh we do a lot together and get along great.. Its mainly because he was always there when I was a little kid. I hate to admit it but I hardly remember my mom in my childhood at all! So Ive always just been closer with my dad.
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Last edited by rso0; 02-09-2013 at 12:12 PM.
Well, it's not easy when you live in 5 cities within 7 years and I will be moving again at the end of next month to another part of Japan. She stays back in my home town with my family. I don't want her changing schools 6 times by the time she's in second grade. Plus, Japan is the most expensive country in the world and it's tough enough to provide for myself here. Plus, I don't get home until pretty late.Wait. So are you going to send her away while you stay in Japan? While moving is hard, if she stays there she might get to be bilingual without all the classes and whatnot, which is quite an edge in and of itself, and can get you a good job alone.
Granted a lot of Japanese speak English very well. But people who can get a US security clearance and speak fluent Japanese? Not so many.
Or do gobs of Marines learn the language while they're there? I guess I don't know.
As for English speakers in Japan, in terms of English education in all of Asia, Japan ranks the second lowest just above Cambodia!! To the Japanese, they only learn English just to pass a test and not for practical use. There are a good number of English speakers in Japan, but the Japanese are really shy around foreigners and speaking English.
I never said I worked with the government or the military. When I was living next to Iwakuni, a Marine base outside of Hiroshima, none of the Marines I was friends with at all spoke that much Japanese. I can only visit home during winter vacation and sometimes my family visits during summer vacation depending if I am free or not.
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very different to my family, they don't understand me and never will, they think i'm crazy but they're used to me, it's all good
out of all my family members, i think i've always gotton on best with my grandmother, sadly she has passed away though
Last edited by darksky967; 02-16-2013 at 10:55 AM.
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What made my dad the best was that he was proud of everything I did, it didn't matter if it was just a simple drawing he would tell all his friends about it, he was always cheering me on in everything I did, I mean at times I thought he was the worst, but now that he is gone I realize just how lucky I was to have such an awesome dad, he would play guitar around the house singing these silly songs he'd make up for me, and even when I got older, he kept doing them, even if I thought it was stupid. My dad was and always will be my hero. he fought so many illnesses that should of killed him many times, yet every day he woke up with a smile, he took each day as a gift and he was so strong about it.
And as for school, Well I got accepted to a school to study makeup artistry and special effects makeup for movies, and that is what I want to do, I don't want to work in a salon doing suburbia moms, or bridezillas, I want to do the big gore movies. and my uncle keeps telling me to take a community collage course first rather then attend this private school, No community collages offer the same type of course as the one I am looking at and its kind of disappointing, I used to want to be a lawyer and now I just don't.
"Goodbye, Sa-ka-ki-ba-ra-kun."
I couldn't survive with out my mom, shes my best friend.
As for the rest of the family, I'm kinda the black sheep, avoided in conversations.
althoe i have a bad relationship with my dad i heard he was in the hospital the past 11 days so i went to visit him and brought him an apple juice and i told him i loved him and he said he loved me to. now that realey made me sad. it was the first time he said that to me and that broke my heart and realey made me sad
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I have a great relationship. Nothing wrong in it at all
It's pretty good. We just rip on each other most of the time.
it's all in good fun though.
Being the youngest in the family... I love them so much.
I don't see being the youngest in the family has anything to do with loving them. >.<
Kinda fragmented I guess since my parents got divorced I only see my dad every now and then but still on good terms, my mom I see often but this is where things get complicated since lately her boyfriend seems to misunderstand my humour for actual statements and end up arguing. This has led to a steady down hill view on him for me and personally I barely tolerate him and the only reason I do is for my mom's sake. My brother I get along with no problems these days since he moved into his flat a few years back we get along much better.
Pretty comfortable with my parents- I mean, I still kiss them goodnight despite being in my teens! XD
My mom and I don't see eye-to-eye on everything, but I don't tend to let her know that for the sake of keeping down any sort of tension that might arise from arguing over something. For example, one time she ran into my manga collection while cleaning and asked me sort of 'Why do you have chinese cartoons?'. I just said that I have them because I like them, and then hid them better. She's probably forgotten about them by now, and I hope she never asks. If she does, I have a bit of a better answer this time around! On other stuff, I find it interesting how our relationship is changing as I become an adult- I've started to look out for her more instead of only depending on her, y'know? Sort of mutual support.
As for my dad, we're really great. He and I see things closer, and we like doing stuff that my mom doesn't care for when she's not around- like when I was younger my mom freaked out that I had taken so many fantasy books out of the library so she asked my dad to filter my books. He did it like two times, with a sympathetic eyeroll, and then 'forgot' from then on. Nowadays we blast terrible pop music in the car when we're alone and lambast it all the way! XD (She doesn't like pop). I guess I inherited more of him than my mom, so the similarities bring us together.
My sisters.. I have one that knows how to push every button, and hates everything I do, basically, and yet doesn't see that she's similar to me in many ways. It's kind of hilarious, but annoying. Very rocky relationship with her, and I don't think it can get better unless she changes as she grows more mature.
My other sister, we get along very well, because she's the peacemaker type, doesn't stir up trouble if she can help it, though she can get whiny and stressed out fast. We're not that close, but we do well.
My little brother is fun, but doesn't know how to stop and leave me alone when I need peace and quiet. He's only about five, so I'll cut him slack.
As for extended family, I get along better with them than they do with themselves, I think. Certain people I can sense I'm going to have a confrontation with if I end up talking about certain things- sort of like with my mom, yeah?
Anyway, that's my family, and I love em, even if they get on my nerves sometimes.
My family is kind of divided. This is including distant family. I get along with a couple of my cousins without any problems, and one aunt. I get along with Mom pretty well, Dad and I do too for the most part. The rest of the family aren't involved in my life, and that's my decision to keep them out. That's pretty much all there is to mention. At least I think it is.. should be.
And not to pull your halo down, around your neck and tug you off your cloud,
but I'm more than just a little curious how you're planning to go about making your amends to the dead.
Your halo slipping down to choke you now.
A strained, estranged, hazardous, rocky, volatile, unforgiving, merciless, I-feel-like-we've-been-over-this, depths-of-Hell kinda relationship.
. . . Does that adequately answer the question?
My Wi-Fi, it's gone out . . .
For the most part we get along, but since I came out to them, things have been a slight bit awkward. For a while my sister was extremely rude about it, and that really made it hard for me to want to be around her anymore. But she stopped with those comments after a while. It's been a couple of years since she made them now. It's not that I've really forgiven her, because I still haven't got an apology, I just have tried to leave it in the past to the best of my ability.
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I'm a mama's boy. My mom is my best friend and has always had my back.
I'm the black sheep of the family but she never gives up on me unlike the rest of them.
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