Your Existing Situation
"Organized and detail-oriented, she has a very precise and methodical manner. she needs relationships which offer her understanding, respect, and approval."*
I am a clean freak and OCD, but I don't understand what it means by "understanding, respect, and approval."
Your Stress Sources
"Avoids pressure from others and insists on developing her individual independence. Wants to make up her own mind with resistance from others or outside forces, and needs the freedom to make her own decisions. Wants to be looked at as a wise individual whose opinions are respected, and has a hard time admitting she is wrong. Can be reluctant to accept or understand other people's opinions or point of view."*
I can at times be stubborn when it comes to an opinion of things, and I do have a hard time admitting I am wrong. And I am a bit of a rebel who likes to go against the flow.
I also do strive to be wholly independent on myself and myself alone, and that is actually one of my downfalls as I try to endure too much without any relief from others. But my striving for my own independence lead to me becoming an avid martial artist who can take anyone on
Your Restrained Characteristics
Open and emotionally involved in relationships and easily finds satisfaction through sexual activity.
Is feeling emotionally drained from stressful and tense situations. she is in need of peace and quiet in order to overcome her lack of energy and may become irritable if she does not recover.
Current events have her feeling forced to make bargains and put aside her own desires for now. she is able to find satisfaction and happiness through sexual activity.
I don't feel stressed or the need to bargain and put aside my desires. And I've never been too open or emotional with relationships as a whole.
Your Desired Objective
"Wants interesting and exciting things to happen in her life. she is able to make others like him, because of her genuine concern for them. she is charming and open and makes friends easily. she can have an over-active imagination, which leads her to fantasize and daydream."*
I guess this is mostly true, except I'm not so open more as I am outgoing.
Your Actual Problem
"Impressed by unique and one of a kind things, and by people with exceptional personalities. Tries to takes the characteristics she likes in other people and apply it to herself as well as coming across as a unique individual."*
I definitely like taking characteristics that I like in other people and applying them to myself and making sure I stand out as a unique one of a kind person. But I don't see how that is a problem..
Your Actual Problem #2
Longs the freedom to make her own decisions and plans without the criticism and restrictions of others. Uses her charm to deal with others and get what she wants.
The is true, but the second part is not.
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