Breakups are they good or bad? Tell me yours.

[Chi The Sweet]

Mine was a mix of both bout I wanna hear it cuz im frikkin depressed anyway...can someone get me adrink?

[TheThunderBringer]

*hands drink and condolences*

My experience with dating: Lol dating.
Had a girl ask me out in 6th grade, dumped her the next day because people were really surprised that we were dating. I'm kind of disgusted that 6th grade TTB fell under peer pressure. Nowadays I don't look for girlfriends, I just make friends. Not into the dating scene at the moment.

[Meenah]

In my life, I've been dumped 4 times in my life. I think the worst one was with my fourth ex because I felt like we were a little serious because we dated for 2 years. At one point, I was close to falling in love with him until things didn't turn out so well and he broke up with me. It was hard getting back up from it, I've started seeing other people after him and we would "date" for a few weeks or so. Now I'm with a guy in a serious relationship for 4 years and we're doing great. For the break up, I am happy that it happened. Otherwise, I wouldn't have been with the guy I am with now who will be my husband soon. <3 Yay.

[threewolves]

I've had one what I guess you could say was a bad break up, all the rest, me and the the woman i broke up with, would still be talking to each other a lot after words. Most even would call me or talk to me when they saw me about their current relationships and what I thought of some problem they might be having. They all knew I would give them an honest answer and maybe explain better what was going on their new boyfriends head.

Heck, my ex-wife and I still talk off and on. Just the guy she got with after we divorced doesnt like her talking to me, which I totally understand. So we dont talk as much. But she knows if she needs help, I will help as I can.

[Mugiwara-no-Basuke]

Well, I think the longest and more serious a relationship is the painful it the breakup but I have never experienced a breakup as I now date the same girl for 2 years and a bit

[Chi The Sweet]

Thanks no I'm going to eat my fudge just still though like the sad keanu reeves

[MariannaB]

Sorry to hear that you are going through a breakup. In my dating experience, I had a mutual breakup with someone who had a new girlfriend in a week and that girl was one of my best friends. Even before we broke up he had been texting her and stuff so I was pretty upset to find out about that. But he ended up doing the exact same thing to her and then his next girlfriend. Are dating me he just turned into a bit of a player. So there was good and bad in that too I guess, because it did hurt but it was good that I saw who he really was.

[Mugiwara-no-Basuke]

Sorry to hear that you are going through a breakup. In my dating experience, I had a mutual breakup with someone who had a new girlfriend in a week and that girl was one of my best friends. Even before we broke up he had been texting her and stuff so I was pretty upset to find out about that. But he ended up doing the exact same thing to her and then his next girlfriend. Are dating me he just turned into a bit of a player. So there was good and bad in that too I guess, because it did hurt but it was good that I saw who he really was.

Hearing that makes me feel pretty upsted, girls are not toys, what an smart aleck that guy should be! Glad you left him

[MariannaB]

Hearing that makes me feel pretty upsted, girls are not toys, what an smart aleck that guy should be! Glad you left him

Yeah I was pretty upset about it but when he ditched my friend it just kind of clicked about what a jerk he was. He's currently going out with his third girlfriend since we broke up and it just seems to be a repeat of all the others ones. A few months before he moves on and he has the next girlfriend basically lined up before he breaks up with the current one or they break up with him.

[Mugiwara-no-Basuke]

Yeah I was pretty upset about it but when he ditched my friend it just kind of clicked about what a jerk he was. He's currently going out with his third girlfriend since we broke up and it just seems to be a repeat of all the others ones. A few months before he moves on and he has the next girlfriend basically lined up before he breaks up with the current one or they break up with him.

What a dumbass he is! -_-
Sure you deserve much better

[Darkandiel]

Yep, breakups suck.

I went through one this week with a guy I have been with for two years. I really loved him, he didn't feel the same way and I guess he was honest in telling me, but it doesn't mean it hurts any less.

As a lady online said to me today "Separation from a serious boyfriend like that feels like being widowed, except less fair." It seems a little extreme, but it does reflect how I feel. That sense of loss is just damn awful. ;_;

[Mugiwara-no-Basuke]

Yep, breakups suck.

I went through one this week with a guy I have been with for two years. I really loved him, he didn't feel the same way and I guess he was honest in telling me, but it doesn't mean it hurts any less.

As a lady online said to me today "Separation from a serious boyfriend like that feels like being widowed, except less fair." It seems a little extreme, but it does reflect how I feel. That sense of loss is just damn awful. ;_;

I'm really sorry to hear that, should have been really painfull
But yeah, at least he was honest and I'd add brave enough to tell you his feelings, guess it shouldn't have been easy for him as well after so many time.

I'm in a serious relationship for 2 years so I can totally understand your words

[Miss Moonlight]

They're good if the person you're breaking up with is a douche.

[Mugiwara-no-Basuke]

They're good if the person you're breaking up with is a douche.

Sorry but what's a douche?

[Miss Moonlight]

Sorry but what's a douche?

uhm, let's see how I can describe this

It's American slang, as in comparing them to the cleansing product for women's ... neither regions. It usually refers to males who act that way, although in my opinion it can be applied to females as well. It's kind of another way of saying "loser" or "idiot"


Yea, well, googling it would possibly explain it better, lol

[Mugiwara-no-Basuke]

uhm, let's see how I can describe this

It's American slang, as in comparing them to the cleansing product for women's ... neither regions. It usually refers to males who act that way, although in my opinion it can be applied to females as well. It's kind of another way of saying "loser" or "idiot"


Yea, well, googling it would possibly explain it better, lol

I tried googling it but didn't came out very enlightening xD

Thanks for explaining, I totally agree with your last post now
Sometimes ending up a relationship is just the best solution, no matter how hard and painfull if you're not treated respectfully and feel loved it's just better to stay alone, the wounds will stay there but the scars will slowly heal

[darkrider21]

my first brake up was by far the worst. i had a girlfriend freshman year in highschool.i truley loved her boy was i blinde. she heard that i was talking crap about her behinde her back and i heard she was doing the same to me.her and i got in to a fight in class and then is when i did something i regret doing. i had the chance to send her to a diffrent school bud decided not to becouse i though her and i could be friends.and from highschool we were in an off then on relationship. man i wish i never met her i truley think my life would be better off without her

[Kaleohano]

oh boy. theres been a lot. Some bad, some good. One time i dumped my girl by not hugging her back and then just quietly walking away. Very mean way to do it, but it is what it is. Then I broke up with one girl by making out with her sister in front of her. Also a terrible thing to do. But those were both a long time ago. More recently has involved talking about it just not working out.

Don't think that i'ma pretend like i've never BEEN dumped. Its happened to me as many times as i've dished it out...well no...i actually haven't been dumped much at all. But i remember a girl telling me it was over because i wasn't seeing her enough. Another one told me she was tired of hearing me talk about my car. I was gonna dump her for that, but she beat me to the punch.

The only truly painful break up was with a girl i'd been with for close to a year. Not gonna say her name, but she was very special to me and one of the very few ex girlfriends that i still talk to. And now she's getting married to one of my good friends. Funny how things work out. It just sucks that we broke up because of me going in the military.

[CrimsonMoon]

I've never experienced breakups in my life. Yes, I rejected people before we become more than friends. But right now I'm in a serious relationship with my first boyfriend of almost 4 years, and I'm going to get engaged in September. I understand though that breakups can be tough, but you'll get through it.

[elisaelisa]

Usually break up is good long term as it means you werent meant to be. In same time, it always hurts in a way even if u are the one who wants to leave and evemn if u have no doubt about it whatsoever.