This thread is more like a question than a theory Iím going to discuss here my observation to people in society and the way they treat the people around them. I notice whatever the emotion of the people they treat it also bounce back to them - like if you make other happy you too will be happy and if you make other sad you too will be sad. You might say it was a conscience but what is it exactly? And why the emotion of other people you treat also rises to you? I havenít seen anyone who is happy when they make others sad even the evil person who done that also feels sad inside their so-called happiness to it is based on hate. And also thereís another thing that I notice: the sad emotion or depression spreads faster than the happy emotion on crowd this I have a theory and please correct me if you think Iím wrong.
Theory: Misery or sadness is easy to spread than happiness
My first idea is that people are basically happy person, self loving and lively and soft but they easily to fall in some period of their lifetime because of tragedy, sad moments or nightmare happened and the memory to this moment is stack in mind as trauma incident so after the moments here he/she is no longer lively as they was they will be depressed and the strange fact is sad memories are more easily to remember and retained than the happy memories thatís why most people are unhappy because most of their memories arenít good and good memories are easily to be forgotten this creates depression and when they see other people in same situation they feel bad for them so my observation is: bad memories accumulates and retained more than happy memories thatís why misery spreads like wildfire over happiness over the crowd and since happy person are soft they have no power to help someone because most depressed people already closed themselves in misery and happy person has no power to make them rise the choice is always up to the misery people but some has a hard time to be happy.
Another idea is that whenever you mistreat or make someone happy it also bounces back to you whatever their emotion is. Watch - if people bully others, beat them or any mistreating the people who bully having a hard time to be happy as long as the victim is depressed we call it conscience in fact both the people who makes other misery and the one being bullied is has having more trouble to be happy. The one who being bullied closed themselves from happiness because it was already sink in their mind that their existence is negative - feel of being worthlessness, a reject, hopeless, a disease etc. and this drives them to run away from happiness as the time passes this thinking is already thick to the point that its impossible convince them to raise to their own feet and be happy and watch the people who responsible they too find themselves hard to be happy! They too feel the same way! Strange! They cannot be happy unless their victim forgives them as long as the victim sinks themselves the responsible cannot raise too.
It was a common philosophy to the anime that if you make other happy you too will be happy what Iím saying here is the opposite if you make other miserable you too feel miserable but is it really true?
Take an example of beautiful person who feel very high to him/herself because it was an accepted fact that whether you are miserable or not you will be attracted to beautiful form alone so its not surprisingly that beautiful people who feel higher than others are common. And watch if they see ugly people and happen that they mistreat them they will feel uneasy sad and also depressed they too started to reject themselves the moment the victim starts to hate themselves. And like I said before misery spreads like a wildfire over a crowd the crowd will feel sorry to the ugly ones but why they are not responsible the world conscience can only be placed to the one whom responsible but the crowd cannot be responsible and they feel bad! I think the misery that they see to the ugly victim also reminds them to their pass memories which also make them depressed.
Now this is the tragedy if the crowd itself bullied the single person then the crowd itself will also start to hate and close themselves too! This is very common to early school life this is the other point of view why misery spreads like a wildfire. And the tragedy for the one being bullied is thereís nothing to inspires him to raise and the moment heís closed it will not just close , as the time passes it will gradually to form a lock.
This is just my view about the peopleís emotion you treat is also your emotion feel free to comment and I would be happy to know your opinion too!
Feel free to see my other thread:
The play of morality and evil
ego, dignity, perversion and immaturity
theory: ugly people werenít supposed to be ugly and a product of depression of ancestors and parents