This could become a conterversial trend but I did see it on anime/yugioh/other forums so I am just going to try it.A example of a forum that did it is yugiohetc forums.
1.Thatguyslater (easy he is level headed,forgiving,not harsh,friendly,intellegent,lets the past be the past and does not hold a grudge) and hard to get on his bad side.He would also be the mod of the 3 here who would give out the least bannings partly because of his good nature yet if it came to a point that a ban had to go out he would do it.
2.DerGerman (Well he can become volatile and be pretty harsh and if he was a mod he would possiably hand out most of the bannings.............but he has a quailty(s) that makes him be a leader which is being motivational,can back down abit if he notices he went to far and be apllogetic without being a push-over,gets to the "real" issue at hand,not as intimadating as he looks,fearless online,Would be like the S.W.A.T. of the forum.
Also you cannot choose from your friends list