What turns you off in a guy/girl?

[marvelangga]

Getting more socially conscious, are we? XD

For me... (although I know it's useless to use spoilers being the first post)

 

I find that smoking is a major turn off in girls... no offense. Probably because I don't smoke myself.

[Yuuchun]

Guys who openly talk about getting wasted and partying like there's no tomorrow. Smoking is another big thing...

[Albear]

Very short attention span.

[Velvet_Nightmare]

Lack of humor
OCD
Stressing too much about time
Not using "indoor voice"

[Wio]

Noises, especially ones that are loud or last a long time.

[Velvet_Nightmare]

EDIT: Double post I didn't notice until today, ignore plz.

[sa5m]

haha probably everything, I get annoyed by little things quickly
I'm picky : (

[Jasanime]

Stupidity - I like smart guys, Tradie guys, smoking, eating meat or junk food, being religious, guys that KNOW they are good looking, bad dress sense... I could go on. I'm very hard to please.....

[Samuru]

Stupidity. Everything mentioned in the posts above me, in simply one word.

[Aleyna]

When they have ashy or flaky skin, that's a huge turn off. Please, use lotion.

When they don't want to dance, can't dance, or have a horrible music taste. That's usually a deal breaker for me.

When they aren't affectionate, that really sucks. I want you to tell me that you love me, hold my hand, wraps your arms around my waist, and give me little pecks on the cheeks and lips when we're together whether it's behind closed doors or in public. I want to see that I truly make you feel happy and in love.

[Matt~]

Smoking and those who stress out all the time T.T (probably since My mom does it all the time....)

[SakuraKiss13]

Smoking, Drinking way too much alcohol and the type who has a number of crushes equivalent to the grains of sand.

[CrimsonMoon]

Smoking, braggers, indecisiveness, dishonesty, stupidity, loud, annoying.

[Munchman]

Girls in high heels put me off... Dunno why.

Also , people in general that care way too much about their appearance.

[marvelangga]

Also , people in general that care way too much about their appearance.

True. Especially girls who puts too much make-up or wear very revealing or fancy dresses.

I still prefer it simple and clean.

[Xeyuzio]

Stupidity, drinking, smoking, drugs. When they say my music sucks because they most listen to perfect music. Short people, I don't really get attracted to short people. Probably some more things.

[Hollow Ichigo]

Interesting topic. I'd have to say girls that can't understand the difference between a gentleman, and a thug. Its sad how some women allow themselves to be treated.

[Munchman]

Stupidity, drinking, smoking, drugs. When they say my music sucks because they most listen to perfect music. Short people, I don't really get attracted to short people. Probably some more things.

I don't exactly know how to quote the specific part of your post, but i really think that short girls are cute. Don't know why really, but I've always been attracted to them.

[13sticker]

High heels, make up (depending on how its used), smoking, drinking, conceited, stereotyping, lame excuses for everything, going the crowd cause it's cool (not being themselves)

[Kiss of Death]

In a guy I'd say:
1. Gross hands. When guys chew their nails off... Can't stand it
2. Hairy chest. Sorry, I know it's manly and stuff, but that's just.. too mutch
3. When a guy shows off a girl like his property (Like "Yo, dang, it's ma girl *grabs her and won't let go. not genlty grabs*)
4. Those guys, who wear makeup. I'm not saying anything about those, who clen their face, masks and so on, but like eye shadow, eye liner, nail polish...
5. Gross teeth
6. When a guy is getting ready longer, than a girl (I get ready quite fast)
7. Rasist or sexist

I could come up with more, but...

(IF I were a boy (see what I did there? :P) I'd hate that girls would show themself sluty. I mean mini skirts that are wayyy to short, heels, that are way to high, fake nails,hair,eyelashes,eye color,skin color. Also who smoke, drink like a salor and think she's diva doing all of this)

[Elukien]

Women who let themselves go. I don't mean large people, well they are included, but people who put on too much make-up or wear clothing that doesn't suit them and they think it does. Mean there's putting on make-up to make yourself look nice but then there's people who put on too much make-up, which I find is a massive turn off. Also, I find that women who are attention seekers a turn off. Wear less clothing then complain about people staring at you. You shouldn't be wearing that clothing then in the first place, you attention seeker.

[Acnologia]

~ "Stinky" or just a bad smell in general
~ Poor personal hygene
~ Being bossy or pushy
~ Expecting me to read your mind and automatically know things (I get this A LOT and it bugs the hell out of me)
~ Blaming me for something I have no control over
~ Not allowing me to make mistakes and expecting me to always be perfect
~ Not allowing me to express my feelings
~ Not respecting my friends and family
~ Being "too fast", I need my time
~ Lying
~ Lack of understanding and empathy
~ Rushing me around, I tire easily

W o w I seem fussy :c I'm really not that much, but yeah :c

[aether]

I could make a large list but I don't wanna so heres a short list
-Girls who dress provocatively when out in public
-Wearing far too much makeup (I mean what the hell? why is it considered acceptable to wear so much makeup that could literally cover several walls in colour?)
-Being head strong in times when not needed
-Expect me to be someone who I'm not

[Princess Cupcake]

i really think that short girls are cute. Don't know why really, but I've always been attracted to them.

I am 4'11" and my guy friends tell me the same thing. They think my short stature is cute but can't explain why >.<

For me, my turn offs are sexist jerks always joking about women being in the kitchen or acting like we're maids just because we're female. First off, I suck at cooking, and second, why bother cleaning when they're just gonna make another mess and not clean that one either.

[Meenah]

-If I can't last even 20 minutes with you in a conversation, turn off.
-Poor hygiene you have to be clean in and out, this is followed by smoking and drinking.
-Don't make me do things that I don't want to do.
-Narcissistic men irritate me, why can't you be humble about yourself?
-Racist, disrespectful, and very mean to my family and friends.
-Being blamed for something I can't help over.
-Dishonest.
-Emotionally and physically abusive.

I have a longer list.