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    Hey there Anime Fans, i hope its allowed to post my own problems...

    I really feel like I am going down in this life. For Example, last Year i had nearly 8-9 very very good friends and 2 best friends. But today i realised that i only got my 2 best friends left. I was never bad to my friends or my family, its just that i dont speak much.
    But I think I am a really nice person.
    Everyone is friendly to me at my school and no one is going to hurt me or things like that, but its not more. Just normal friendlyness, say "hi Phil" and smile.

    Now i feel like there is no one here and outside to talk... We got 2 weeks without school, my friends are at their holidays and no one is there to chat or to talk. I feel like I am the only person with spiritual touch and Emotions.

    I am really depressed and i feel so damn lonely, what can I do?

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    Default Re: I feel like I´m going down

    I'm pretty much in the same boat as you. People are friendly, but not close.

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    Default Re: I feel like I´m going down

    Are you in high school or college?

    Either way at some point you and your friends are going to graduate, and probably go your seperate ways. After you're living somewhere other than where they are, you should count yourself lucky if you retain even one person from each of those phases of life as a real friend (as opposed to just a facebook friend).

    If you feel lonely, I'd suggest giving some family members a call or visit or something. Those are the relationships you want to hold on to strongly.

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    @okazaki2 Do you usally go to people in school and talks to them / invite them to hang out afterwards exc?

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    Default Re: I feel like I´m going down

    If you are anything like me (a little weird and people don't really get me), that could be why you don't have many friends. When I was in high school I was very popular but never actually close to anyone, and after high school I lost touch with EVERYONE I would have called a friend. It wasn't until I turned 21 that I found someone (my bf) who really understood me. And then a year ago, at 24 and found a best friend for the first time ever who I really click with.

    So my advice is don't stress too much about strong friendships with school friends cos like @sunnyside said, you will all go your seperate ways in the end anyway. Also you haven't finished becoming the person you will become as an adult yet. I bet when you know exactly who you are and love yourself for it, other people will then be drawn to you. For now learn to enjoy time alone, and maybe get a pen pal, or do a course in something that interests you so you can meet like-minded people.

    You're not alone, keep your chin up!

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    What your relationships lack, i presume is intimacy. That is, you should connect deeply with the other persons fealings so that you both better inderstand eachother. Seeing what is on the outside is never enough. Perhaps your not the intimate type, or you have problems trusting people. Or maybe like me your just straight up not that social. These are all pre asumptions im not trying to judge you, sorry if i come of that way.. I do know how you feel though, lonlyness is the worst fealing. Im right here for you man.

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    Default Re: I feel like I´m going down

    Don't worry I feel like that too most of the times,
    but you'll find good friends eventually plus its holidays and such so everyone is busy busy busy
    call your relatives, hang out with them , sometimes you make new friends by them or so, that's how it is for my family members.. ._.

    -pets head- don't worry too much xD



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    Default Re: I feel like I´m going down

    Don't worry too much about that. Everyone feel like that at some point of their life. It's normal. As for your friends, people will go their separate way, like what they said above. But you can always make new friends. Also, go out there and meet new people, or just call your friends out. I think most people think that calling your friends to go out and hang out somewhere would be a burden to their friends, so they just sit and wait for their friends to call. If all people are like this, then we've got no one who'll take the initiative to rekindle the friendship, lol. So take the initiative and you'll be surprised at how your friends will appreciate this small gesture. Good luck!

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    I used to kinda have this problem in elementary but when I got in to middle school it got better. You won't make friends, until you talk more. Some people don't like quiet people cuz they may think you think you're too good to talk to them or something. They also might think you don't talk to them because you don't like them. I had a problem with that with this one dude, he didn't talk to me so I assumed he didn't like me. We talked on facebook one day and it turned out he felt the same way about me. We both thought the other didn't like us because we never talked to each other. Maybe you can do some research or read some articles about being more talkative and outgoing. If that doesn't work maybe u should try to find some friends that are just as quiet as you. ^_^ If you need someone to help you or to talk with I'm here! PM me anytime...

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    It's a way of life. Like sunnyside said. We grow up going our seprate ways and our lucky enough to retain someone from our school days (no relation) I fortunatly was able to keep those that I first met. My Best friend Jose whom i'v known since middle school and another friend Henry since i was 6. Its times in life we need to spand our wings and search more then whats before us. And as for having that one person close that you can just read each others minds. well. That my dear sir is call a brother from another mother XD everyone has one. Just chin up ^^ maybe you can make a cool friend here and maybe one day met and go to a con or kick each other in some smash brawl. just look at it like this. We have eyes in the front of our heads so we can see our desitinations. our goals. if we would have them on the back all we would see is what we are leaving and as we get farther away we begin to miss it and come back never being able to advance forward. Never live in the past. always step foward to a better tommarrow. At least thats how I view it :3

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shibito View Post
    It's a way of life. Like sunnyside said. We grow up going our seprate ways and our lucky enough to retain someone from our school days (no relation) I fortunatly was able to keep those that I first met. My Best friend Jose whom i'v known since middle school and another friend Henry since i was 6. Its times in life we need to spand our wings and search more then whats before us. And as for having that one person close that you can just read each others minds. well. That my dear sir is call a brother from another mother XD everyone has one. Just chin up ^^ maybe you can make a cool friend here and maybe one day met and go to a con or kick each other in some smash brawl. just look at it like this. We have eyes in the front of our heads so we can see our desitinations. our goals. if we would have them on the back all we would see is what we are leaving and as we get farther away we begin to miss it and come back never being able to advance forward. Never live in the past. always step foward to a better tommarrow. At least thats how I view it :3
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasanime View Post
    Great advice, but terrible spelling. If English is not your first language I shall forgive you!
    Does my grammar Have to be perfect with so many people v.v At least it's not slang :/ that and I always feel asleep in english class sooo yeah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shibito View Post
    Does my grammar Have to be perfect with so many people v.v At least it's not slang :/

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    Well there is something I want to try. but I don't know if people will catch on. but it's how epic our minds really are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shibito View Post
    Does my grammar Have to be perfect with so many people v.v At least it's not slang :/ that and I always feel asleep in english class sooo yeah.
    No it doesn't have to be perfect if you're not fussed about it. It's just that bad grammar and spelling are one of my pet hates. I'm a perfectionist. But that's my flaw, not yours.

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    Wlel if you try to tihnk aoubt it. Wehn you siwcth the ltetres aorund you can siltl raed waht it syas as lnog as the fsirt and lsat lteter are in the rihgt palce ^^

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    Default Re: I feel like I´m going down

    Wow!
    Thanks for so many good suggestions. You give me a lot of hope.
    Most of you told me, its normal to lose friends. I´m at High School, thats what you would call it in the US, and I had known most of my friends since the Elementary school.
    But its still a big Problem for me to find new friends. I cant just go and say "Hey there, you want to be my friend?"
    I think maybe I dont need many friends, just a Person to talk or a Person who understand my Problems and my Emotions.
    I have to say, I am very emotional :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by okazaki2 View Post
    I cant just go and say "Hey there, you want to be my friend?"
    I think maybe I dont need many friends, just a Person to talk or a Person who understand my Problems and my Emotions.
    I have to say, I am very emotional :/
    Well, friends want to have fun. If you just talk to them about stuff like problems and emotions they're not going to have a lot of fun. You have to have an intimate friendship before you start doing that sort of thing.

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    But I am special

    Do you really think a Doctor can help me out with this Problem? There were really nice sugestions, but this one was a fail.

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    Everyone has already touched up on the basics and they're absolutely correct. Losing friends is never an easy thing but it's a part of life. I lost several close friends throughout the course of my time in High School but I at least have the memories of the good times to remember them by.

    Just keep yourself as happy as you can and look forward to the future. Focus on your studies and your relationship with your family, and eventually everything else will fall in place.

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    Theres gotta be a good reason why some people disappear from your life...because if they stayed they'd only hold you down. But for the ones that stay, they make everything worth it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shibito View Post
    Wlel if you try to tihnk aoubt it. Wehn you siwcth the ltetres aorund you can siltl raed waht it syas as lnog as the fsirt and lsat lteter are in the rihgt palce ^^

    10 Points if you understood that
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    ...a doctor will advise you on what is best

    you tell him your problems and then he can decide what is in your best interest, he may advise you to talk with a cognitive behavioural therapist or something like that, if you really are depressed you would go to a doctor, if not, well then you're just an attention seeker or something

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    Quote Originally Posted by okazaki2 View Post
    Hey there Anime Fans, i hope its allowed to post my own problems...

    I really feel like I am going down in this life. For Example, last Year i had nearly 8-9 very very good friends and 2 best friends. But today i realised that i only got my 2 best friends left. I was never bad to my friends or my family, its just that i dont speak much.
    But I think I am a really nice person.
    Everyone is friendly to me at my school and no one is going to hurt me or things like that, but its not more. Just normal friendlyness, say "hi Phil" and smile.

    Now i feel like there is no one here and outside to talk... We got 2 weeks without school, my friends are at their holidays and no one is there to chat or to talk. I feel like I am the only person with spiritual touch and Emotions.

    I am really depressed and i feel so damn lonely, what can I do?
    Have tried being a little more open to those, you would want to consider a "friend"? If you close yourself off its only natural that others would think you not social or the friend type of person. You say that you have 2 best friends, so you do have an approachable personality. Don't come off as a gloomy-gus....you'd be surprised at the results.

    I have a good friend that is clinically depressed, but he's doing well, and we talk all the time on Xbox Live after he moved. Yes, there is distance between us but good friends will not let that get in the way. Don't stress yourself out over it, everything that has been said is valid and please do see a professional regarding any issues may have a councilor, doctor, therapist...but you also keep us apprised of your feelings, and issues.
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