Originally Posted by
Gauntlgrym
sadly, i just became single about a month ago.
it really sucks, because we were together for 9 years.
in the end, i guess you could say we just grew apart.
she was thinking i would change certain things about myself over time, and i was counting on her to not change......well, the opposite happened.
the thing that REALLY ticks me off though, is one of the main things that tore us apart, i addressed at the beginning of our relationship.
as soon as things started to get serious (about 6-8 months) i said:
"look i don't want kids. if you want kids, or you think there is any possible way you are gonna want kids later......we should end the relationship now, because in the end, it won't work out. so we should just part ways now, before it gets even harder to break up later........because if you want kids, this isn't gonna work."
she assured me that she didn't want kids either. well guess what? wrong!
jesus, i feel like i just wasted 8 years of my life being with someone, because they lied to me.
i told her from the start that i wasn't just looking for a "booty call", i was looking for someone who i could be with forever. AND forever isn't gonna work if they want kids.
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