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I don't know, am I the few people who are not looking at the race? It's not the issue, it's just dating in general. Perhaps race is secondary or the least issue. Just to simply put it as this: school is way more important than finding love. Have to be all smart at least, right? You'll just be irritating to say: you can be well educated, but be dumb when you find someone to love. It's a different story. After all the poster is 15.
Aaah...I remember when I used to be really into Asian guys, Lolz. I wanted the cutest Asian around. Had to have the right hair, cute smooth face and sexy little body to boot.
Theeen I fell in love with my Puerto Rican/Columbian boyfriend. Who...if no one knew any better, looks like a punk rock, emo boy band member. (its the hair) I have a preference too. I like delicate looking boys. ^.^ I cant help it! ♥
Thing is...most Asian boys wont even look at a girl who is outside of their culture to be perfectly honest. Though I am not entirely sure! I'm not trying to crush your hopes and dreams here..I'm just talking from experience. One has never even looked my way...I'm not that ugly sheesh!! >:/
"They didn't need to tell eachother. They never needed to tell eachother."
First of all (and this includes the original poster), you can't group all "Asian cultures" into one like that. To say someone is "Asian", by itself, says virtually nothing. To start with, there are Japanese, Chinese, and Korean peoples, to take a few, with different languages, different religions, different traditions and customs, different histories, and different genealogies.
I'm not denying that certain stereotypes may hold a grain of truth, but it makes no sense to group "Asian" people together to make generalizations. A Chinese person or a Korean person would tend to stick out from the crowd in Japan from the way they spoke or acted, just as a Japanese person would probably stick out in other Asian countries.
To start making generalizations about what "Asian" people are like would be like saying that people from the U.K., Canada, France, Germany, Russia, and the U.S. are all "X" because they are all predominantly Caucasian in race. Each country has their own distinct histories and national traits, not to mention wildly different dialects and habits. Or do we all "look alike" enough to you superficially that you never bothered to note the difference?
As to your point about "asian countries" wanting lighter skin; tanning salons were and are still quite popular in Japan, and if you'd actually been here you'd see that many of the celebrities that are glamorized on television and magazines are quite tanned in complexion, so I really don't know what you're talking about. Perhaps that may hold true in, say, certain rural areas in certain Asian countries, but as I already said, you can't then say that all "asian countries" are like that. It makes no sense.
Last edited by Datenshi; 03-16-2012 at 03:03 PM.
"If a person who indulges in gluttony is a glutton, and a person who commits a felony is a felon, then God is an iron."
-Spider Robinson, God Is an Iron
I'm not sure if I understand this but if it's related to Asia then I think I have something in mind.
Frankly speaking, I think there's no difference in many people. Of course, based on appearance, races and personality is a big difference but what does it matter if you choose a person based on that alone? I'm saying this to myself also because I like looking at fair-skinned people by mere appearance but don't know who they really are. From what I can see, people often target those with wealth and fame. Everyone has their own business on what they like or not. What they want, own it and face it thoroughly. I've thought of it before, that I like Japanese people because of their look then I start thinking again that it's not just that. I'm attracted to they culture and their language that I end up learning it *pouts
You guys do know there's Japanese, Chinese, Taiwanese, Philippines, Malaysian and so on with different features and stuff. Not all of them have what we have and what we don't.
*sigh. What I'm saying is, don't just pick random people based on their appeal. Find something that's more important than that. For the 15 year old poster, I'm not saying this to be mean and all but in your age you should focus on your studies ahead and for your future. If you think you're good enough, go do whatever you want, find whatever you want but in the end don't do it if it'll make you regret for the rest of your life.
Oh and, if there are circumstances as to which there're boundaries, limits and reason for your choice as in related to religion you should know what to handle before stepping on the line. From what I know, Malay people with Islamic religion is not the same as any people. They kept their distance until they're really in the contract. Boys and girls are forbidden to touch when they have reached their puberty. And yeah, everyone has their own pride no matter who they are. ( I think I need to re-check every religion and races because I still don't understand *scratches head )
Last edited by Xanfiore; 03-16-2012 at 03:16 PM.
Be careful not to become shallow.
Most attractive guys are douchebags, no matter what race.
Just go for a person who feels right/sincere to you.
@blueangel06661 - Dissing a 15 year old teenager's thoughts. You never fail to annoy the hell out of me.
Whenever I hear the word "asian" it really confuses me. Asia is huge you know xDDD
Which one do you want? xDD
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I have no problem with dating black guys, just not the ones in my city.
I live in the (hood) basically.
Most of the boys at my school or the datable( cute ones) either smoke weed are in gangs or are whores. (Guys who have to many girls and don't wanna choose just one)
I would love to date a cute black guy that wasn't ghetto, didn't smoke weed wasn't in a gang and didn't have so many girls.
But sadly that's hard to find where I live.
I like all races of guys I just particularly want to date an Asian guy.
Oh and to make this clear to everyone, I'm not just going to date someone because their Asian. The have to have a good personality and morals as well just like everyone else.
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@animegirl2365 You're welcome. I hope you find a really great guy. Don't discount someone just cos they smoke weed though. Although it's not great for teens whose brains are still developing, it's really not as bad ppl think. It's a lot safer than alcohol and there is no evidence of anyone having ever died as a direct result of smoking weed. I'm not saying it's a good thing, I mean, I wouldn't smoke it, but despite it's bad reputation it's a fairly safe drug.
This thread is hilarious I'm pissing myself.
And some of the oversensitive people in this thread as well....
I repeat, some of you guys have to stop being delusional and get your head of your Utopias. The world will never be all butterflies and ponies.
@blueangel06661 Well considering WRibbon thinks @Xey Oiz immaturity is acceptable just because he's young, you shouldn't be surprised.
Some people need to grow up and accept reality and just because you're young, being rude and a total brat, is acceptable.
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And picking a person just because of race?
How is that okay?
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I didn't know I was being the rude one in this situation...
人類は調和したのか？VY2V3 = Me | Kagamine Len Act 1 = You
I'm talking in general
Like I was talking to @Ribbon how immature and bratty you are, and someone you scold you just slap you out of that crap but she was all "Nooooooooo he's a kid, let him beeeeee" Now look at you, more bratty and spoiled than ever.
Now this is interesting...
So this forum now has oversentitive people and racist? HAHAHAHAHAHA XDDDDDD
Really, sexually attracted to only one race? How is that even possible>
So what about Mexicans and Indians...and I mean Hindu people. Some of my Mexican friends could be confused as they were Hindu, so @SuXrys , explain the situation.
Stupid girl: OMFG OMFG I LOVE INDIAN GUYS AND YOU LOOK INDIAN!! SO I LOOOOOOVE YOU!!!
Mexican dude: Eh....>.> I'm actually Mexican? I know I look Indian but I'm Meixcan?
Girl: Oh???? Well, I'm not attracted to you anymore.
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I am not rude in general, I'm only rude when others are rude.
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By the way, I don't know how many times I've said this but just because you have preferences doesn't mean your racist, racist is when you hate someone because of their race, I don't think anyone in this forum is genuinely racist.
人類は調和したのか？VY2V3 = Me | Kagamine Len Act 1 = You
See how no hate is mentioned. It just means that when you prefer once race over another and discard all the rest as they are less superior to your liking, hence why you are not attracted to them in bed since you only choose to sleep with one or a select few races would make you a racist against all the rest since to you they are different and are not as superior as the rest that you are "attracted" to and refuse to become that close to them SOLELY because of the race. Vice versa to becoming attracted to them because of their race.Definition of RACISM
1: a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race
I'll sleep and date anyone as long as I like them for who they are... Come at me bro is all I gotta say.
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