What men don't understand about women.

[Hakoshi]

Yes, it's the same with girls too, but then again, girls are naturally compassionate, even with people that they are not close to. With guys that they care about, I think if the guy cries, chances are she will cry too, lol. With a guy, if the girl cries, he will feel uncomfortable, but I don't think he'll cry along with her.

yeah , but I mean other things besides crying, a guy can always cheer her up by doing things she likes, or.. idk playing video games

a lot of girls now a days play video games.. so i guess that be a good way to vent
what better then to shoot people in a virtual world just to vent out anger or sadness lmao..
I sound so ... odd xD
(but oddly enough its true..)

[CrimsonMoon]

yeah , but I mean other things besides crying, a guy can always cheer her up by doing things she likes, or.. idk playing video games

a lot of girls now a days play video games.. so i guess that be a good way to vent
what better then to shoot people in a virtual world just to vent out anger or sadness lmao..
I sound so ... odd xD
(but oddly enough its true..)

I agree with video games, lol. The good thing is that you can shoot someone legally, so it's a good way to vent out anger or frustration, without taking it out on the real person who caused the feeling of anger or sadness. Another is just telling her that he appreciates her, or a good meal, or good movies, or just be by her side. So guys, it's not that hard to satisfy girls. Just show your sincerity.

Yes, I sound odd and mushy too, for some reason, lol. XD

[Miss Moonlight]

It's ok...love accepted...always.

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You're right it's a weapon used to emasculate us guys with directional anger, irritability, and emotional and verbal assaults that we have no counter measure. You use this "time" to *F* with us, and you know it, we have to tap dance around egg shells for just to make not yell at for doing anything wrong in your eyes which is everything. Oh, yeah your sexual hunger gets peaked (sometimes) but really....it's not a fair trade off.

Hey, captain over-generalization, try instead dating a woman that's better at controlling her emotions during that time.

Your mother is not a good model for this.

[Jacob's Ladder]

Hey, captain over-generalization, try instead dating a woman that's better at controlling her emotions during that time.

Your mother is not a good model for this.

Hey, private judgement I grew up with 3 sisters...so don't preach this bull with me. So, you're special...lets call you a unicorn.

[Miss Moonlight]

Hey, private judgement I grew up with 3 sisters...so don't preach this bull with me. So, you're special...lets call you a unicorn.

That sucks. I can see how this would set up you up for future disappointment with women. Just remember, you get to date a woman who's not your sister someday.

[Slayer]

Men and women are built differently, it's as simple and complex as that. What might seem like a huge deal to a woman might go unnoticed by a man, and I think problems and misunderstandings start to arise when either party forgets to acknowledge their differences.

I'll admit that I often find myself baffled by men but instead of letting it affect my relationships (intimate and not), I try to understand the other person's point of view before getting upset. I've come to learn that if a man says he's fine, chances are that he's fine, no use in poking and prying at something that isn't likely there and will only serve to irritate them.

Women are undoubtedly more complex and tend to try and hide their feelings more and beat around the bush with a lot of issues and I don't think that's ever going to change. The key factor for any man and woman to ever get close to fully understanding each other is communication. If the communication is good, I believe it greatly reduces the chances of any misunderstandings/arguments/etc from happening.

[Nitzer]

Men and women are built differently, it's as simple and complex as that. What might seem like a huge deal to a woman might go unnoticed by a man, and I think problems and misunderstandings start to arise when either party forgets to acknowledge their differences.

I'll admit that I often find myself baffled by men but instead of letting it affect my relationships (intimate and not), I try to understand the other person's point of view before getting upset. I've come to learn that if a man says he's fine, chances are that he's fine, no use in poking and prying at something that isn't likely there and will only serve to irritate them.

Women are undoubtedly more complex and tend to try and hide their feelings more and beat around the bush with a lot of issues and I don't think that's ever going to change. The key factor for any man and woman to ever get close to fully understanding each other is communication. If the communication is good, I believe it greatly reduces the chances of any misunderstandings/arguments/etc from happening.

^ that's every female.

[Jacob's Ladder]

Hey, private judgement I grew up with 3 sisters...so don't preach this bull with me. So, you're special...lets call you a unicorn.

That sucks. I can see how this would set up you up for future disappointment with women. Just remember, you get to date a woman who's not your sister someday.

My past fiance' wasn't so bad with it...though she had her moments. Now, I didn't say ALL women do this...it was a play on events experienced by myself, and first hand tales from guy friends.

I know its unfair to take a biological function you have no control over and turn it into a source of guy propaganda. For that I do apologize.

And thanks for taking it with a grain of salt, I felt I was stirring the pot with my previous statement and you gave it to me in a tactful way...though my mother would rolling in her grave...ha..but that's a different story, for a different time.

[Rylingo]

The more prolactine a person has the quicker sadness will drive them to tears. Both genders have around the same levels of prolactine whilst they are children. Women keep around the same levels of prolactine through life.
Boys prolactine supply collapses when puberty sets in. As the production of testosterone increases the supply of prolactine decreases.

If you think men cry less because they have less emotions you are wrong. They can be in agony on the inside but a shortage of prolactine means tears will not be produced as often.

(Just so you ladies understand)

[Sizary Momo]

The guy i like just admitted that he likes me!!!
I didn't know guys had feelings.O.O
My friend-Do you like Rebeca?[my name]
Crush-a little O///O

I'm so shocked!!!>.<

[Samuru]

The guy i like just admitted that he likes me!!!
I didn't know guys had feelings.O.O
My friend-Do you like Rebeca?[my name]
Crush-a little O///O

I'm so shocked!!!>.<

Typical women, shocked instead of happy.

What I don't understand about women is that they are being addressed whenever you say something. Doesn't matter what it is.

[tadashi]

I agree with you there

[Miss Moonlight]

Typical women, shocked instead of happy.

What I don't understand about women is that they are being addressed whenever you say something. Doesn't matter what it is.

'Shocked' can be a normal reaction depending on the situation .. it doesn't always have to exclude 'happy' ...

[DontAskIfImBlack]

Womenz only date blax men. Whyte men don't do it for them any mo'

[Aleyna]

I don't understand how guys can get comfortable sitting down anywhere with a penis and balls.

I can just see myself waking up, and somehow I'm changed into a man unfortunately.
I would be fixing my sack a lot, and I could never get it to feel comfy. How annoying! >_<

[Jacob's Ladder]

I don't understand how guys can get comfortable sitting down anywhere with a penis and balls.

It's not so tough...though we do need to re-adjust several times.

I can just see myself waking up, and somehow I'm changed into a man unfortunately. I would be fixing my sack a lot, and I could never get it to feel comfy. How annoying! >_<

You dream of being futa? And what you're thinking of doing is considered "playing" with yourself.

[Rylingo]

I don't understand how guys can get comfortable sitting down anywhere with a penis and balls.

I can just see myself waking up, and somehow I'm changed into a man unfortunately.
I would be fixing my sack a lot, and I could never get it to feel comfy. How annoying! >_<

Penis isn't so much trouble unless its erect. Which can be annoying as the penis's have a mind of their own and sometimes get excited when there is literally no reason to be excited.
The ball sack can be annoying and needs adjustment to stop it getting in your way or sticking to your leg (just telling it like it is). Its also sensitive as all hell. You have to be careful because any sort of impact causes instantaneous driving pain which pulsates all the way up through your chest.

And now I have disgusted all the ladies in the thread!

[Nitzer]

Penis isn't so much trouble unless its erect. Which can be annoying as the penis's have a mind of their own and sometimes get excited when there is literally no reason to be excited.
The ball sack can be annoying and needs adjustment to stop it getting in your way or sticking to your leg (just telling it like it is). Its also sensitive as all hell. You have to be careful because any sort of impact causes instantaneous driving pain which pulsates all the way up through your chest.

And now I have disgusted all the ladies in the thread!

That why men put there hands down there pants.

[CrimsonMoon]

Penis isn't so much trouble unless its erect. Which can be annoying as the penis's have a mind of their own and sometimes get excited when there is literally no reason to be excited.
The ball sack can be annoying and needs adjustment to stop it getting in your way or sticking to your leg (just telling it like it is). Its also sensitive as all hell. You have to be careful because any sort of impact causes instantaneous driving pain which pulsates all the way up through your chest.

I noticed some guys adjusted (I swear that wasn't my intention!) theirs. I don't have anything against that, because I agree with what @Aleyna said that it looks uncomfortable. But some don't have the decency to do that in private. o.o It's kinda, umm, disturbing.

And now I have disgusted all the ladies in the thread!

True that, lol.

[Kiss of Death]

I don't undestrand girls who buy tiny dogs and put them into bags and carry with them... Isn't that animal abuse?

[Ensifer]

I don't particularly care when women are spending hours looking, trying out clothes or putting on make-up. If they want to do that them its fine; their money and time. Its like us with our video games or sports or whatever the stereotypical men does. However, what I don't understand with women, in a relationship, is that they can dream/look/flirt at other men and it's fine. Of course we don't particularly like that but what can be done? But if we dream/look/flirt, even if its for a joke, about other women we're the bad guy. I've already been told a reason for this but I still can't understand it that well.

[Mαrble]

I don't understand why some women talks ambiguously. Why do they always make a labyrinth of everything they say...? >~>

[wolfgirl90]

And now I have disgusted all the ladies in the thread!

Well, not all of them.

Of course, I wonder what would happen to the guys if I spun an interesting yarn about how uncomfortable it is sometimes to have boobs (particularly when its cold) or what happens when a girl sits on a bicycle for a couple of hours and suddenly stands up....

[MissAstaire]

How would you like someone looking at your butt and boobs!?

To be honest, it really does not bother me. I joke with my boyfriend and call him a pig for ogling me, but I like it. It makes me feel good and I like that he wants to look at me. Even before he and I got together though, it made me feel good about myself when random guys looked at me. As long as they didn't try to get all up in my face, it was flattering.

I have to agree why do girls spend hours looking at one piece of clothing? For what possible reason does a shirt / dress / jeans warrant a 2 hour look over?

There's only one reason I'd ever spend an outrageous amount of time looking at pieces of clothing, and that was for dresses and jeans. Dresses because I hardly ever wear them, so if I'm going to buy one, it's going to be one that I actually like. Jeans because I'm in like, pants-limbo. Clothing companies seem to think that all women are super tall and skinny or short and stout. There is no mix-n-matching or in between. I've only been able to find one store (Aeropostale) that has jeans for skinny short girls. But with them being more on the expensive side of the pricing fence, I'm going to get a few pairs and take as long as is needed to get the right ones so that I don't have to keep replacing them. Thank Allah for my ridiculously fast metabolism, I've been able to fit into the same size jeans that I bought 4 years ago and I don't have to shop very often.

On topic, how do you know when you're in love? I like this question because its like asking an artist when a painting is finished, or asking someone who does a boring sounding job always works so hard. What markers, or signs are there to you? Or is it just a strange feeling you get one day?

I honestly had no idea. I was against the notion and idea of "love" for as long as I can remember. I mean, why put yourself in that position? Why make yourself so vulnerable to someone else? It's stupid. But.. things happen. One day I just knew. I looked at him and knew that he was worth it. It scares the hell out of me, but what can you do?

[Reviewer03]

I dont understand thouse XX Cromosome creatures at all - perhaps they are one chromosome to far away.....

Life is NOT a super complicated strategy game where you have to deceive everyone about your true intentions.

If a girl likes me I dont need some subtle hints that can only be decoded with a supercomputer - A plain "I like you" or something like that would be perfectly sufficient.

Womens obsession with flowers - Sure they have nice colours and smell nice but do women really want them all the time?

Contradiction about the guy they want: I allways hear that a girl wants a nice, educated, handsome guy - why are so many then with ruffians who can sell themselves as cool and cant shut their mouth?