I posted this topic on another forum site to get some responses, so I thought I'd post it here. I'll just re-post and rephrase the question a little.
It is a bit more difficult to find a girlfriend here in America for Asian males. This is true for me, as I'm a Chinese male interested in finding a girlfriend here. Do you think it would be easier for me if I went somewhere like Europe? I would like both female and male opinions here (from anyone in the world actually).
I admit, it's an Asian male's fault too, because a lot of us are brought up to be more reserved and most of the time we are naturally conservative. However, I don't always lack confidence, and I do approach women, however, I get no love in my town lol. I have tried online relationships that NEVER worked out. I have my insecure moments too at times. There is no language or culture barrier, as I speak fluent English and was born in St. Croix. It's even harder when I'm not even acknowledged and when asked what a woman's ideal man would be, never once would an Asian male be mentioned. I myself am trying to overcome stereotypes and the media, because that's where I believe the lion's share of the disinterest comes from. You can say that I'm whining, but I believe I'm just bringing up something that is mentioned occasionally on other forum sites. Anyways, I've heard that women show more interest in Asian males in the southern part of America and parts of the UK, so I'm just expressing some curiosity is all. I'm hoping anyone can give me some advice or just tell me a story Anything you want to add, feel free.