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    Post Better luck with women not from the USA?

    I posted this topic on another forum site to get some responses, so I thought I'd post it here. I'll just re-post and rephrase the question a little.


    It is a bit more difficult to find a girlfriend here in America for Asian males. This is true for me, as I'm a Chinese male interested in finding a girlfriend here. Do you think it would be easier for me if I went somewhere like Europe? I would like both female and male opinions here (from anyone in the world actually).


    I admit, it's an Asian male's fault too, because a lot of us are brought up to be more reserved and most of the time we are naturally conservative. However, I don't always lack confidence, and I do approach women, however, I get no love in my town lol. I have tried online relationships that NEVER worked out. I have my insecure moments too at times. There is no language or culture barrier, as I speak fluent English and was born in St. Croix. It's even harder when I'm not even acknowledged and when asked what a woman's ideal man would be, never once would an Asian male be mentioned. I myself am trying to overcome stereotypes and the media, because that's where I believe the lion's share of the disinterest comes from. You can say that I'm whining, but I believe I'm just bringing up something that is mentioned occasionally on other forum sites. Anyways, I've heard that women show more interest in Asian males in the southern part of America and parts of the UK, so I'm just expressing some curiosity is all. I'm hoping anyone can give me some advice or just tell me a story Anything you want to add, feel free.

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    Default Re: Better luck with women not from the USA?

    I say, go to Asia to find an Asian woman =D

    Actually, nah, I never thought about how hard it might be. Just where in the US have you been looking/asking? People in my area show great interest in Asian culture, and I have female friends who are fixin' to get an Asian boyfriend/mate.

    (Of course online relationships would rarely work out...that's a no-brainer.)

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    Post Re: Better luck with women not from the USA?

    Quote Originally Posted by animeyay View Post
    I say, go to Asia to find an Asian woman =D

    Actually, nah, I never thought about how hard it might be. Just where in the US have you been looking/asking? People in my area show great interest in Asian culture, and I have female friends who are fixin' to get an Asian boyfriend/mate.

    (Of course online relationships would rarely work out...that's a no-brainer.)
    The problem is... I'm not looking for an Asian girlfriend. I'm an open person, so it doesn't matter a whole lot. However, I have preferences.

    Massachusetts. What state are you from then? A person from another forum site told me that he lives in Minnesota, and the ladies there aren't fond of Asian guys lol. I wish I had more friends like yours, that can appreciate Asians without being... unnatural about it. On the other hand, it's a turn off when non-Asian women become way obsessive with Asian culture and start living in a fantasy world.

    Yeah, unnecessary pain from stupid decisions are online relationships in a nutshell. Eventually, you'll get lonely, and want some intimacy. That's how humans work.

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    ....Well my Asian friend wouldn't let me hug him or anything... Eventually I lost interest... Then he bought me a valentines gift and I think he asked me out but I can't remember if it was a dream or not.... I don't think it was... But I was just like "I'm not really interested....." And pretty much ever since he forcibly pushed away my hugs so I never really hugged him like I used to.

    Asians men are strange..... I was sort of scared to date him anyways. Our personalities crashed a lot despite me liking the Asian culture. However if you're a hot korean............ -wink-


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    Quote Originally Posted by blueangel06661 View Post
    ....Well my Asian friend wouldn't let me hug him or anything... Eventually I lost interest... Then he bought me a valentines gift and I think he asked me out but I can't remember if it was a dream or not.... I don't think it was... But I was just like "I'm not really interested....." And pretty much ever since he forcibly pushed away my hugs so I never really hugged him like I used to.

    Asians men are strange..... I was sort of scared to date him anyways. Our personalities crashed a lot despite me liking the Asian culture. However if you're a hot korean............ -wink-
    He was probably still in his shell, and probably had to work up the courage to present you that gift. Believe it or not, I think Asian men are even more complicated than most women of any race (this coming from an Asian male).

    Sadly, a lot of people appreciate the culture, but the people from them... not so much.

    Not trying to dis Koreans, but please don't tell me that you're referring to those feminine looking, long haired, stick thin guys from K-pop? Either way, oh well, you have preferences just like everyone else.

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    I kept his gift. :3 Part of it is at home [It was a heart shapped popcorn bowl] But I keep the box that had chocolate covered "friendship" fortune cookies in it. It now holds every fortune I get plus some smelly good beads. I sniff my box a lot xD But yeah he was complicated x.x Don't be overly complicated or the other party is going to just give up and it'll be too late for you by time you roll around. x.x


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    Quote Originally Posted by Hideki Motosuwa. View Post
    Massachusetts. What state are you from then? A person from another forum site told me that he lives in Minnesota, and the ladies there aren't fond of Asian guys lol. I wish I had more friends like yours, that can appreciate Asians without being... unnatural about it. On the other hand, it's a turn off when non-Asian women become way obsessive with Asian culture and start living in a fantasy world.
    Massachusetts and Minnesota are good and all, but they are not exactly the most diverse places out there lol. I live in the DC metro (Maryland to be exact), and my county has am 12% Asian population, so a lot of people are directly indirectly or influenced by the Asian culture.

    And, as disturbing as it could get for a non-Asian woman to become obsessed with Asian culture, I know many people who're just like that XD A couple of my female friends went to Japan, took Japanese/Chinese, and are currently in or looking to be in a relationship with an Asian male...=x I have been asked before, (yes, I'm Asian) but I'd like to stay single for a bit longer, so I turned her down. We're still best buddies though =D

    I think you just need to be in the right place. If you go to places like NY or LA (where the Asian congregate), I'm sure you'll have better luck.

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    Im not sure. The only asians that I have meet are the ones who comes here for a semester or two to study at my University. I live in a student corridor so there are usually always atleast two or three asians that lives in the same corridor with me. The thing is that I barely get to know those people, even those who lives here for a year (I have lived in this corridor for three years now) and that is because they are always in their rooms. Sometimes they get out to eat and cook but then they just head straight back to their rooms. Sometimes they hang around with their fellow asian exchangestudents but.... they really almost never talk to us others. Im not the biggest social person in the world but I try to talk to everyone around me but... it's hard with "those" asian people. They seem to not want to talk to us, even when they come in to the common kitchen they... oh I don't know but it almost feels like they often are trying to "avoid" us. Standing with their backs against us and... you'll know... Asians and spanish people are the ones I after these three years have come to the conclusion that they are hard for me to get to know, mostly because they really arn't that often around so I can actually speak with them in the first place. Last year one asian girl lived in our corridor and I didn't even saw her ten times... Didn't even learned her name. Anyway you could think that if they are coming to another country to study they would do that because they wanted, as one reason, to train their english skills but I have a hard time to see that wish actually coming true if the only people they are hanging with are the fellow asian students. Oh well.

    Except for the asian people here on campus I really havn't met any other asian guy so it's hard for me to say if it is easy or not for an asian guy to get an non-amercian girl as their girlfriend.
    But you know, I really just think that you have had back luck when it comes to women. You will meet someone, I am sure of it. And if you don't like the women around you why not moving somewhere else? I don't think that you will have to move so drastical far away from your home, I think another town close to home is good enough. And the women that you meet, are you always meeting the same type of girls? Have you ever tried to join a new sport or a new spare time activity? Are you going out much?

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    Quote Originally Posted by animeyay View Post
    (Of course online relationships would rarely work out...that's a no-brainer.)
    Young relationships in general rarely work out. But when they're online relationship, their failure is attributed to their online-ness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blueangel06661 View Post
    I kept his gift. :3 Part of it is at home [It was a heart shapped popcorn bowl] But I keep the box that had chocolate covered "friendship" fortune cookies in it. It now holds every fortune I get plus some smelly good beads. I sniff my box a lot xD But yeah he was complicated x.x Don't be overly complicated or the other party is going to just give up and it'll be too late for you by time you roll around. x.x
    Well that's cute XD Ha, I can't help it if I'm a complicated man. There is no other party though. Mainly because none of them even look at me lol.
    Quote Originally Posted by animeyay View Post
    Massachusetts and Minnesota are good and all, but they are not exactly the most diverse places out there lol. I live in the DC metro (Maryland to be exact), and my county has am 12% Asian population, so a lot of people are directly indirectly or influenced by the Asian culture.

    And, as disturbing as it could get for a non-Asian woman to become obsessed with Asian culture, I know many people who're just like that XD A couple of my female friends went to Japan, took Japanese/Chinese, and are currently in or looking to be in a relationship with an Asian male...=x I have been asked before, (yes, I'm Asian) but I'd like to stay single for a bit longer, so I turned her down. We're still best buddies though =D

    I think you just need to be in the right place. If you go to places like NY or LA (where the Asian congregate), I'm sure you'll have better luck.
    That is true. In fact, there are very few Asians here on campus. My friend (now more of a stranger) is also Asian and kind of a dork :P He's even shyer than I am. But he is trying. Hm... congratz to you man

    Well, maybe I'll visit there and find out.
    Quote Originally Posted by SuXrys View Post

    Im not sure. The only asians that I have meet are the ones who comes here for a semester or two to study at my University. I live in a student corridor so there are usually always atleast two or three asians that lives in the same corridor with me. The thing is that I barely get to know those people, even those who lives here for a year (I have lived in this corridor for three years now) and that is because they are always in their rooms. Sometimes they get out to eat and cook but then they just head straight back to their rooms. Sometimes they hang around with their fellow asian exchangestudents but.... they really almost never talk to us others. Im not the biggest social person in the world but I try to talk to everyone around me but... it's hard with "those" asian people. They seem to not want to talk to us, even when they come in to the common kitchen they... oh I don't know but it almost feels like they often are trying to "avoid" us. Standing with their backs against us and... you'll know... Asians and spanish people are the ones I after these three years have come to the conclusion that they are hard for me to get to know, mostly because they really arn't that often around so I can actually speak with them in the first place. Last year one asian girl lived in our corridor and I didn't even saw her ten times... Didn't even learned her name. Anyway you could think that if they are coming to another country to study they would do that because they wanted, as one reason, to train their english skills but I have a hard time to see that wish actually coming true if the only people they are hanging with are the fellow asian students. Oh well.

    Except for the asian people here on campus I really havn't met any other asian guy so it's hard for me to say if it is easy or not for an asian guy to get an non-amercian girl as their girlfriend.
    But you know, I really just think that you have had back luck when it comes to women. You will meet someone, I am sure of it. And if you don't like the women around you why not moving somewhere else? I don't think that you will have to move so drastical far away from your home, I think another town close to home is good enough. And the women that you meet, are you always meeting the same type of girls? Have you ever tried to join a new sport or a new spare time activity? Are you going out much?
    Maybe you should try breaking the ice? Learn a little of the language they speak? Like a basic, "hello, how are you?" or "How's it going?"

    Yeah, I've had way bad luck with women I don't get it. I believe myself to be a good looking guy and a bit of a beefcake (picture a baby faced Bruce Lee). And yup, women here aren't that diverse. I don't have time for extra activities. I'm taking the minimum of 5 classes, so it's kind of hard to find time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hideki Motosuwa. View Post

    Maybe you should try breaking the ice? Learn a little of the language they speak? Like a basic, "hello, how are you?" or "How's it going?"

    Yeah, I've had way bad luck with women I don't get it. I believe myself to be a good looking guy and a bit of a beefcake (picture a baby faced Bruce Lee). And yup, women here aren't that diverse. I don't have time for extra activities. I'm taking the minimum of 5 classes, so it's kind of hard to find time.
    Maybe. But I actually and honestly don't think that I would have to learn their langugages just to make them talk to me... I have tried, and still are, to talk to them but then in english. But often they just look at me with a surprise on their face, then saying a quick hello with a smile and then go off to their rooms again.

    But then maybe the reason why you havn't got yourself a girlfriend isn't the fact that you are asian but the fact that you don't have the time for finding one? Do you think it would be different if you wouldn't be asian?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SuXrys View Post
    Maybe. But I actually and honestly don't think that I would have to learn their langugages just to make them talk to me... I have tried, and still are, to talk to them but then in english. But often they just look at me with a surprise on their face, then saying a quick hello with a smile and then go off to their rooms again.

    But then maybe the reason why you havn't got yourself a girlfriend isn't the fact that you are asian but the fact that you don't have the time for finding one? Do you think it would be different if you wouldn't be asian?
    Do you really want to talk with them? or an Asian person in general? I think maybe you should try harder. But if they are avoiding you, or don't say a whole lot back, then maybe they aren't the people you want to associate with. I think it's natural that a lot of Asians studying abroad would prefer to stick with their own kind though.

    I have time in the sense that there's plenty of girls in my classes. Just none that are interested or are already taken.

    Yes. Unfortunately, me being Asian makes a huge difference. I'm generalizing here, but I think a lot of American women have a superiority complex, in which they don't find Asian males attractive and think they're too good for them. American guys put the girls down for being close to "an outsider." They get all jealous whenever something that rare happens. For crying out loud, I pose no threat to anyone. It's like I'm not even human.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hideki Motosuwa. View Post
    Do you really want to talk with them? or an Asian person in general? I think maybe you should try harder. But if they are avoiding you, or don't say a whole lot back, then maybe they aren't the people you want to associate with. I think it's natural that a lot of Asians studying abroad would prefer to stick with their own kind though.
    I like to talk to people, it doesn't matter for me where people are coming from. So that "talk to asian people in general" is something that I really don't know what to answer to... I like and want to talk to people in general, where they come from doesn't matter to me. Yeah maybe you are right, but the thing is that I also think it belongs little to get to know the people you are living with. Just staying in your room or just hanging with students that comes from where you come from is something that you can do at home anyway. If you are going to study in another country why not get to know people from various other cultures? Or this one asian girl that I had here last year said that the main reason she came here was because she wanted to practise her english... let's say I didn't see her doing that much.

    Yes I understand that it gives you a feeling of safety to hang around with people that comes from the same country as you do BUT we have people from ALOT of different countries and cultures and asians and spanish people are the only ones that I can see just hangs around with "their own kind". Everyone else seems to mix together, talk to everyone and hang around with everyone. I don't understand why spanish people or asians don't. If you think it's part of the culture then I don't understand why the spanish ones are doing the same, I mean...., the spanish people arn't exactly famous for not being social and such.

    It's hard to talk to people that are never around.



    Quote Originally Posted by Hideki Motosuwa. View Post
    I have time in the sense that there's plenty of girls in my classes. Just none that are interested or are already taken.

    Yes. Unfortunately, me being Asian makes a huge difference. I'm generalizing here, but I think a lot of American women have a superiority complex, in which they don't find Asian males attractive and think they're too good for them. American guys put the girls down for being close to "an outsider." They get all jealous whenever something that rare happens. For crying out loud, I pose no threat to anyone. It's like I'm not even human.
    I really don't think so. Generally people are falling for a person because of the personality.
    Sure there are people that doesn't think a certain type of look is as attractive as something else but no matter how you look with the right personality you can get the girl anyway. The look is what can catch a girls attention, but the person is what keeps her. I know a bunch of guys that isn't Gods most handsome people but they are very social and open and that is how they get women. They go to them, making jokes and making the girls laugh. Even if the girls doesn't see them at first they sure see them after being talked to. Are you a very social person? Do you often talk to girls? If you don't find any of the girls in your classes intersting then are you trying to meet girls at other places? Like at parties, threw friends, threw clubs activites at the university exc exc? What exactly do you do when you are trying to find a girl that you like? Where do you look and how do you behave?

    I think that your idea about the american woman is just something that perhaps your mind has come up with because you are sorry for not finding anyone. Like "it's not me, it's them!". Sort of. I honestly don't think for a second that any american woman feels that way. It feels so.... bizarre.
    Your idea about american women is about the same as one of my guy's friend feels about swedish women... The only difference is that he is swedish and he thinks that the reason he doesn't get a girlfriend is because swedish girls in general is to demanding. But I think that the reason he doesn't get a girl is because he doesn't talk to them that much. If you are for example out in a bar he just sits there looking at everyone and almost "wait" for them to coming to him... and the few times he talks to a girl he is just so.... "way too much forward". Then they backs of, naturally.

    I think that, no matter how you look, you will always find a girl. You just have to talk to them, make them laugh, make them finding you interesting, and make them notice that you are there. Even if you were the most handsome man on the planet you wouldn't for example get a girlfriend if you had a nasty personality to that look, even if you actually would get a girl she wouldn't stay for that long. Im sure of that.

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    Asian males are extremely wanted in Germany/Netherlands. I don't know how the madness is in the rest of Europe. But they have a lot of Asian concerts in those countries. However, for you as a male Asian I wouldn't recommend a non-Asian girl. Most of your parents are old fashioned and don't want a white/black girl. I know this from experience. Its hard to find a suitable Asian guy. Either the Asian parents don''t approve, or the girl doesn't approve the Aisan traditions. I know I actually like Asian guys only by look, but my current boyfriend is white, simply because his parents won't be racist on me. (And he is fantastic also ofcourse, but you get the point)

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuXrys View Post
    I like to talk to people, it doesn't matter for me where people are coming from. So that "talk to asian people in general" is something that I really don't know what to answer to... I like and want to talk to people in general, where they come from doesn't matter to me. Yeah maybe you are right, but the thing is that I also think it belongs little to get to know the people you are living with. Just staying in your room or just hanging with students that comes from where you come from is something that you can do at home anyway. If you are going to study in another country why not get to know people from various other cultures? Or this one asian girl that I had here last year said that the main reason she came here was because she wanted to practise her english... let's say I didn't see her doing that much.

    Yes I understand that it gives you a feeling of safety to hang around with people that comes from the same country as you do BUT we have people from ALOT of different countries and cultures and asians and spanish people are the only ones that I can see just hangs around with "their own kind". Everyone else seems to mix together, talk to everyone and hang around with everyone. I don't understand why spanish people or asians don't. If you think it's part of the culture then I don't understand why the spanish ones are doing the same, I mean...., the spanish people arn't exactly famous for not being social and such.

    It's hard to talk to people that are never around.




    I really don't think so. Generally people are falling for a person because of the personality.
    Sure there are people that doesn't think a certain type of look is as attractive as something else but no matter how you look with the right personality you can get the girl anyway. The look is what can catch a girls attention, but the person is what keeps her. I know a bunch of guys that isn't Gods most handsome people but they are very social and open and that is how they get women. They go to them, making jokes and making the girls laugh. Even if the girls doesn't see them at first they sure see them after being talked to. Are you a very social person? Do you often talk to girls? If you don't find any of the girls in your classes intersting then are you trying to meet girls at other places? Like at parties, threw friends, threw clubs activites at the university exc exc? What exactly do you do when you are trying to find a girl that you like? Where do you look and how do you behave?

    I think that your idea about the american woman is just something that perhaps your mind has come up with because you are sorry for not finding anyone. Like "it's not me, it's them!". Sort of. I honestly don't think for a second that any american woman feels that way. It feels so.... bizarre.
    Your idea about american women is about the same as one of my guy's friend feels about swedish women... The only difference is that he is swedish and he thinks that the reason he doesn't get a girlfriend is because swedish girls in general is to demanding. But I think that the reason he doesn't get a girl is because he doesn't talk to them that much. If you are for example out in a bar he just sits there looking at everyone and almost "wait" for them to coming to him... and the few times he talks to a girl he is just so.... "way too much forward". Then they backs of, naturally.

    I think that, no matter how you look, you will always find a girl. You just have to talk to them, make them laugh, make them finding you interesting, and make them notice that you are there. Even if you were the most handsome man on the planet you wouldn't for example get a girlfriend if you had a nasty personality to that look, even if you actually would get a girl she wouldn't stay for that long. Im sure of that.
    Would you talk to an alien? :P That Asian girl must have changed her mind. When you're young, you tend to quite a lot. But I agree, it doesn't help if they're only chatting with their own kind. However, they probably feel "safer" that way?

    If they're never around, try asking when is a good time to talk with them? If they're only saying hi back, then maybe just keep them on the back burner for now.

    That's true. I've seen some of the nerdiest looking guys (no offense) score themselves a pretty girl. I would say most of these guys have good personalities, and are quite humble about it. It's the ones that rub it in your face that pisses me off.

    I'm not very social. I usually have a moody brooding face most of the time. I'm more of a silent type. I suppose girls don't like that. I need a girl to see through that, and like me anyways, though my appearance at first can be very deceiving. In fact, it took the english teacher to force us to find a partner, interview them, and introduce them in front of the class

    I was making a generalization, so you're correct that I'm not right. But you have to admit, some women are like that (probably the ones I shouldn't try talking with).

    Yes, we all have a soul mate out there waiting to be found. I'm just looking for a nice girl who can offer me great companionship at the moment, because my current best friend is loneliness itself.
    Quote Originally Posted by chiisanae View Post
    Asian males are extremely wanted in Germany/Netherlands. I don't know how the madness is in the rest of Europe. But they have a lot of Asian concerts in those countries. However, for you as a male Asian I wouldn't recommend a non-Asian girl. Most of your parents are old fashioned and don't want a white/black girl. I know this from experience. Its hard to find a suitable Asian guy. Either the Asian parents don''t approve, or the girl doesn't approve the Aisan traditions. I know I actually like Asian guys only by look, but my current boyfriend is white, simply because his parents won't be racist on me. (And he is fantastic also ofcourse, but you get the point)
    I knew it On the whole old fashioned parents thing... yes, my parents were alive during WW II, but they aren't completely traditional. They used to be, but now they're way more open. They only want me to be happy, and if a girl who isn't Asian makes me happy, then they're happy.

    Glad to know you've found happiness with your man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hideki Motosuwa. View Post
    Would you talk to an alien? :P
    [...]

    I'm not very social. I usually have a moody brooding face most of the time. I'm more of a silent type. I suppose girls don't like that. I need a girl to see through that, and like me anyways, though my appearance at first can be very deceiving. In fact, it took the english teacher to force us to find a partner, interview them, and introduce them in front of the class
    [...]
    I was making a generalization, so you're correct that I'm not right. But you have to admit, some women are like that (probably the ones I shouldn't try talking with).


    Actually talking to an alien would be kind of interesting.
    Don't you think so?

    You know, it's rather impossible to see "threw" someone like that and see someones personality just by looking at them. If you want a girl to get to know you then you have to talk to them, there is no escape from that - what so ever. Im sorry to say that it's the harsh reality of this world. But then I don't think you would get to know a girl just by looking at them? If you think it's hard to talk to girls then you just have to practise, everything is hard in the beginning but the more you do it the more used you'll get and then the easier it will become. In the beginning you have to really force yourself even if it feels bad, uncomfortable or whatever, you have to imagine that you are standing behind yourself and "pushing" yourself forward towards the girls. If you are nerveous just keep talking anyway, that is better then just standing quiet and if you are talking then the uncomfortable feeling will go away after awhile. It's like standing infront of a class for the first time: before you'll get up your heart can go wild and you can be really sweaty and nerveous, but as soon as you actually stand there and talk it feels better. And the more you talk infront of a class the easier its gets. You just have to keep practising and pushing yourself, thinking "the old me would stand quiet, but my NEW me will not!".

    Honestly, I have never once in my entire life met or even heard of a girl like that, so I can't agree with you on that one im afraid.
    But if there actually are women like that: even I wouldn't exactly want to talk to them. haha!
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    Post Re: Better luck with women not from the USA?

    Quote Originally Posted by SuXrys View Post


    Actually talking to an alien would be kind of interesting.
    Don't you think so?

    You know, it's rather impossible to see "threw" someone like that and see someones personality just by looking at them. If you want a girl to get to know you then you have to talk to them, there is no escape from that - what so ever. Im sorry to say that it's the harsh reality of this world. But then I don't think you would get to know a girl just by looking at them? If you think it's hard to talk to girls then you just have to practise, everything is hard in the beginning but the more you do it the more used you'll get and then the easier it will become. In the beginning you have to really force yourself even if it feels bad, uncomfortable or whatever, you have to imagine that you are standing behind yourself and "pushing" yourself forward towards the girls. If you are nerveous just keep talking anyway, that is better then just standing quiet and if you are talking then the uncomfortable feeling will go away after awhile. It's like standing infront of a class for the first time: before you'll get up your heart can go wild and you can be really sweaty and nerveous, but as soon as you actually stand there and talk it feels better. And the more you talk infront of a class the easier its gets. You just have to keep practising and pushing yourself, thinking "the old me would stand quiet, but my NEW me will not!".

    Honestly, I have never once in my entire life met or even heard of a girl like that, so I can't agree with you on that one im afraid.
    But if there actually are women like that: even I wouldn't exactly want to talk to them. haha!
    Yes, very interesting.

    You can tell a lot about a person without saying a word. I like to observe and see what kind of crap people are full of.

    Well, I don't know anymore. I'll start talking more, but it's going to be a slow process.

    Thank you for your advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hideki Motosuwa. View Post
    Well, I don't know anymore. I'll start talking more, but it's going to be a slow process.

    Thank you for your advice.
    Take the time you'll need.
    Just remember that practise makes perfect!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hideki Motosuwa. View Post
    I knew it On the whole old fashioned parents thing... yes, my parents were alive during WW II, but they aren't completely traditional. They used to be, but now they're way more open. They only want me to be happy, and if a girl who isn't Asian makes me happy, then they're happy.

    Glad to know you've found happiness with your man.
    Thanks man! Ah well, in that case just go for it.
    I just hope your parents are a little modern.
    Because I know some white girls have problems with the culture.
    Or they are too rude not to try to adapt. That too xD
    I dunno how other cultures look at your culture.
    I think a black, indian or arab girl would be most fitting for you.
    In any case. I hope you find yourself a cute and nice girl!

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    I kept his gift. :3 Part of it is at home [It was a heart shapped popcorn bowl] But I keep the box that had chocolate covered "friendship" fortune cookies in it. It now holds every fortune I get plus some smelly good beads. I sniff my box a lot xD But yeah he was complicated x.x Don't be overly complicated or the other party is going to just give up and it'll be too late for you by time you roll around. x.x
    I'd meet those kind of Asian guys that are like that, or they're a complete player and want to spin your head like crazy to make you wonder if he likes you or not, or they can be a complete arse. Maybe its why I end up loosing interest in dating Asian guys, I'm not saying all are like that but maybe 98% of them I met ARE that way. They play out weird, and I end up finding out they want someone who weighs 90 lbs and doesn't touch sunlight basically. Hah. But I guess you can see a lot of Asian girls that would go with anyone as long they treat the girl right, get what I mean?

    My brother I placed him under player. ._.; But when he has a girlfriend of any kind, he is real good to them though, he stops the flirtatious behaviour.

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    Yeah.. My asian never went out and did social things. I tried to drag him on a date to the fair and stuff and wouldn't bulge. Heck he is like obsessed with the Japanese version of the army and always looks at wikipedia about guns and things in the middle of class so I tried to invite him to a gun show that was coming to town. I couldn't have cared less about guns but nada. I seriously tried but I tried too much and lost interested. I felt bad when I told him I wasn't interested anymore but.. eh...... He's a hermit.....

    Although I did get him to come to my house a few times. There's actually a funny anime/manga like story to that. I was talking to him online one day and he told me he lived in the neighborhood that was at the back of my property. It's a pretty large neighborhood but I asked him what road and google mapped it and his house was like 5 away from the edge of my property so I got on my 4-wheeler instantly and drove to my back gate jumped over it and walked over to his house without a second thought. I couldn't believe he lived that close.. We were practically neighbors :3
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    Speaking from my experience in academia, the exchange students (in Europe) rarely hung out very much with the local students. Not really sure why.

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    Haha, speaking of chineses, I got some new chinese neighbors one foot away from my door. And there's these two fine bambinas I can't even determine the legality of their age, much less conversate to. You know, all chinese here don't speak and do not want to speak anything other than chinese and never want to socialize, so people never bother with them. Anyway, if you help me get one of both of them to love long time for one night, I'll pass the word to my local girly friends that you got a long dong.


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    Haha, speaking of chineses, I got some new chinese neighbors one foot away from my door. And there's these two fine bambinas I can't even determine the legality of their age, much less conversate to. You know, all chinese here don't speak and do not want to speak anything other than chinese and never want to socialize, so people never bother with them. Anyway, if you help me get one of both of them to love long time for one night, I'll pass the word to my local girly friends that you got a long dong.
    Haha, that sounds interesting, lil' McFreak.

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    Heah, and speaking of freaks, I'm looking for a dominatrix who'll be willing to play RPG BDSM with me, who likes wearing leather and latex Gestapo outfits. I'll be the little jewish boy with the stupid accent that needs to be punished.

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