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Re: only attracted to anime boys
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Originally Posted by
lairefaerie
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Irl i hate cute boys because the more physically attractive you are the more horrible you are inside
Call me biased all you want but this is true in 90% of cases (with both men and women)
So i'm really making it impossible for myself. Cause even if i did meet someone I found attractive I would automatically hate them and assume the worst of them.
Haaahahha oh well I've got more important stuff to do anyway, I'll go be a vet and take care of sweet little animals <3
You need help if you truly believe that. Where are you getting the "90%" from may I ask? You seem to have made that up because those numbers are absurd.
Must everyone be ugly to fit your bill? Because I went from feeling bad for you to just thinking you need a nice therapist. Anyone with half a brain will agree with me.
Edit: A dislike. Lol. Can't believe anyone would agree with the fact that good looking people are bad people.
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Originally Posted by
Velvet_Nightmare
At least you admit that you're making the situation worse for yourself. Honestly, believing that a person has a bad personality because they are attractive is just weird. I'll admit I'm not the sharpest looking guy in the world, but I can be a real crappy person to people at times. On the other hand, I know plenty of attractive people [at least attractive in my eyes] that have personality traits that I envy: optimism, patience, hard-working, truthful, etc.
Who knows, maybe they got me fooled and are really terrible people, but like I said in my previous post, it comes down to trusting people, and allowing people to become close to you. I admire you becoming a vet if that is the path you choose. I love animals, but humans beings are meant to be social. I know there are people that can go through life with minimal human interaction, but honestly, where's the fun in that?
Its really weird. Judging people for looking good is no less shallow then judging them for not. Calling them bad people for being attractive is foolish, childish and just wrong.
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Trolling, argumentative people. Sigh.
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Re: only attracted to anime boys
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Originally Posted by
Ayu 「あゆ」
Trolling, argumentative people. Sigh.
talking bout the op or responders? op is much more troll-y than the responders, either A) she is in fact a troll or B) has seriously sociological issues
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Re: only attracted to anime boys
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Originally Posted by
Ayu 「あゆ」
Trolling, argumentative people. Sigh.
Trolling? Seriously? You are talking about the OP right? Calling good looking people bad people is EXTREMELY shallow and no better than judging not as good looking people by looks alone. This thread is becoming a joke, along with anyone who agrees that post.
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Re: only attracted to anime boys
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Originally Posted by
lairefaerie
yep. pretty much what the title says.
i don't even really know why, i've only found 1 real guy attractive in about 2 years, yet i've had loads of anime crushes.
i get all "squeeee" over anime boys the way other girls get over real boys-- but when it comes to real boys, i'm like "ew gross".
it kinda sucks because all of the guys who are physically attractive end up having terrible personalities, they are unintelligent and crude.
it's not like i really expect some perfect guy inside and out to waltz into my life because, i know i'm not anywhere near perfect myself.
it just makes me sad sometimes that i can't experience any attraction to boys unless they're... 2d, out of my reach, no way i could actually get to know them because THEY'RE NOT REAL lol.
i think i've started to determine lately that it might be because with real human beings, you never know whether to trust them or not. i think anime boys seem trustworthy because their thoughts are all narrated and you know when he tells the female character "i love you", he's not lying to get in her pants because you watched his deep monologue with himself about whether or not to confess to her the night before.
idk. just my thoughts. little bit of ranting. anyone relate?
Your disappointment in people has led to an aversion to reality and actual human beings. I'd say you should probably get help with that.
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medicated
talking bout the op or responders? op is much more troll-y than the responders, either A) she is in fact a troll or B) has seriously sociological issues
More empty insults from a troll. Thank you for proving my point.
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Re: only attracted to anime boys
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Originally Posted by
Ayu 「あゆ」
More empty insults from a troll. Thank you for proving my point.
i don't even... so okay - EVERYONE responding to this thread is a troll, right? it's not the one person who claims every good looking person is inherently sh*tty, it's the people who disagree with this ludicrous idea. some people's children.
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medicated
i don't even... so okay - EVERYONE responding to this thread is a troll, right? it's not the one person who claims every good looking person is inherently sh*tty, it's the people who disagree with this ludicrous idea. some people's children.
I don't know why you think that. You are wrong for thinking that.
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This thread is still alive?
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Re: only attracted to anime boys
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Originally Posted by
medicated
i don't even... so okay - EVERYONE responding to this thread is a troll, right? it's not the one person who claims every good looking person is inherently sh*tty, it's the people who disagree with this ludicrous idea. some people's children.
By calling people a troll is the obvious easy way out. There probably were a few troll like posts before hand, but the person you quoted seems to know only how to call posts she dislikes as of late troll posts and has a hard time understanding that the true one at fault is the one who thinks good looking people are bad people. Funny enough on another thread, Ayu said this thread was not shallow, but judging anime characters who aren't real people by looks alone is. Hypocritical and very interesting. This thread was controversial already, but it is now a huge joke with no credibility.
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Originally Posted by
Thefringedninja
^^My life. I am having fun XD
I only have a few friends, but I have five pets and I am happy that way. Just because humans have a social psychology, it doesn't mean that you can't live a fulfilling life where being social with other humans is on the back burner.
The last part was more question than statement, actually. XD
Not saying it can't be done, the only way I intended for it to be a statement was in a personal sense for me. I'm not a huge social butterfly, but I try my best to open up to people.
Again, more of my personal stuff/open invitation for discussion. :P
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old legends never die, they just lose weight...or gain it in the form of more posts in this case.
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Imma Let this thread finish but...
I haven't made my input yet.. And I'm saddened by this.
First off, OP is highly delusional and a bit shallow. All beautiful people are jerks? PSHH, who said beautiful people wanted to be with you anyways with that attitude and way of thinking, if it were I'd knock you out of consideration based off of just that delusional personality of yours alone. Not because I'm beautiful and a jerk.
Don't get me wrong though some beautiful people CAN be jerks. I was madly in love with my best friend for years. He was the most popular and sought after boy in our school career. That being said he was a huge jerk to every girl he dated and a jerk to me in public. I was just that closet friend basically. However I don't hold my experiences with him against all other beautiful people as I know every person is different.
Besides. Anime characters can be perfect. They are a figment of someone else's imagination and there are no invisible laws preventing perfection in imagination like there are here in reality. You're obviously not perfect with this creepy mentality of yours, so don't expect everyone around you to be perfect either. You are a "what do you have to offer for ME" instead of a "what can we offer for each other" Don't forget, you have to contribute towards the relationship to.
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Originally Posted by
Rainbow Crash
Besides. Anime characters can be perfect. They are a figment of someone else's imagination and there are no invisible laws preventing perfection in imagination like there are here in reality.
It's kind of a digression but I've seen a few people discuss perfect characters and what they say about the author creating them. It's an interesting topic. When an author creates a perfect character you find exactly what they value most in a mate.
Take the common example of Edward from Twilight. Edward is clearly the epitome of what the author desires. The way Myer's describes him makes this very obvious. Some readers read through the books and become fans of Edward to because he is what they desire. Yet some others find Edward to be a nasty character. They despise him and his actions. They find the authors perfect male to be repugnant. Beauty really is in the eyes of the beholder.
I've also seen discussions on Twilight and it's adherence to the classic Red Vs Blue romantic system. Unlike most american books, blue (Edward) wins. The red (impulsive, brave, loudmouthed) character usually wins over the blue (intellectual, quiet, plotting) character in American media. In eastern media, the blue tends to be seen as the most attractive.
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Rylingo@ may I ask why you find it an interesting topic?
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Rylingo
Take the common example of Edward from Twilight. Edward is clearly the epitome of what the author desires. The way Myer's describes him makes this very obvious. Some readers read through the books and become fans of Edward to because he is what they desire. Yet some others find Edward to be a nasty character. They despise him and his actions. They find the authors perfect male to be repugnant. Beauty really is in the eyes of the beholder.
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in a realistic view (about your red vs. blue thing)
http://s3.roosterteeth.com/assets/epart/ep647m.jpg
theres a stronger conformity to the red winning. sadly, being the patient nice guy just doesn't really work so well these days.
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darksky967
Rylingo@ may I ask why you find it an interesting topic?
I find it interesting because it tells you so much about a writer. And I find writers and what compels them to write, very interesting.
Does the writer value intellect or intuition? Does the writer value unspoken love or love roared from the heavens? Does the writer prefer roaring bravery or unmoved stoicism. Neither blue or red are necessarily right or wrong. It should be noted that conservatives tend to lean more towards the red (with blue as the temptation) whilst progressives tend to lean more to the blue (with red as the temptation).
These opposing forces are easiest seen in romances. You want anime examples? There are loads. Look at fruits basket (I've only listened to a bit of this). Kyo is a red. Yuki is a blue. It's a clear as day with these two.
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Kaleohano
Nice guys =/= a blue. Both blues and reds can be bad guys or nice guys. Blues are not always so patient. They may be just as impatient as reds, they just won't show impatience often. They will manipulate the situation to speed it up.
The friendzone is another topic I could talk at length about. The real shame of the topic is that people tend to either judge the males in the situation as wrong or the females in the situation as wrong (or vice versa given gender swap). The truth is, neither are in the wrong. It's just an unfortunate inevitable effect of human interaction.
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I don't see how it is wrong to be turned off by attractive males because you have had repeat bad experiences with them. This is the truth, and anyone who thinks otherwise is "delusional."
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there's a common denominator in "a string of bad relationships with attractive guys", and that's you. instead of generalizing people maybe you should look to yourself to see if there was anything you could have done to make the relationships work.
and even if it was entirely the guys' fault, you think it's fair to not give anyone else a chance?
tell me if you think the following sentences are true or false:
"Tim and Eric both have blue eyes. Tim doesn't like me. Eric won't like me either because his eyes are blue."
is your argument still making a lot of sense to you?
note: the correct answer is "gee, medicated, when you put it like that my argument sounds assenine!"
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Re: only attracted to anime boys
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Originally Posted by
Rylingo
I find it interesting because it tells you so much about a writer. And I find writers and what compels them to write, very interesting.
Does the writer value intellect or intuition? Does the writer value unspoken love or love roared from the heavens? Does the writer prefer roaring bravery or unmoved stoicism. Neither blue or red are necessarily right or wrong. It should be noted that conservatives tend to lean more towards the red (with blue as the temptation) whilst progressives tend to lean more to the blue (with red as the temptation).
These opposing forces are easiest seen in romances. You want anime examples? There are loads. Look at fruits basket (I've only listened to a bit of this). Kyo is a red. Yuki is a blue. It's a clear as day with these two.
Nice guys =/= a blue. Both blues and reds can be bad guys or nice guys. Blues are not always so patient. They may be just as impatient as reds, they just won't show impatience often. They will manipulate the situation to speed it up.
The friendzone is another topic I could talk at length about. The real shame of the topic is that people tend to either judge the males in the situation as wrong or the females in the situation as wrong (or vice versa given gender swap). The truth is, neither are in the wrong. It's just an unfortunate inevitable effect of human interaction.
We could also go on to discuss how friendzoning doesn't actually exist, it's just a term coined by people who are disappointed that they didn't get what they wanted from a person. A "Nice Guy" is an entirely different topic, too.
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Re: only attracted to anime boys
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Rylingo
Nice guys =/= a blue. Both blues and reds can be bad guys or nice guys. Blues are not always so patient. They may be just as impatient as reds, they just won't show impatience often. They will manipulate the situation to speed it up.
The friendzone is another topic I could talk at length about. The real shame of the topic is that people tend to either judge the males in the situation as wrong or the females in the situation as wrong (or vice versa given gender swap). The truth is, neither are in the wrong. It's just an unfortunate inevitable effect of human interaction.
http://www.aplacetolovedogs.com/wp-c...p-in-class.jpg
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Miss Moonlight
We could also go on to discuss how friendzoning doesn't actually exist, it's just a term coined by people who are disappointed that they didn't get what they wanted from a person. A "
Nice Guy" is an entirely different topic, too.
Not only is friendzoning a thing, but it is to everyone's advantage that they are aware of it and understand how to avoid it.
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Lolz same here!! That's cause we know what they're thinking and they are soooo much cuter and just seem so perfect!
But like real guys are all stuck up and eww! Well no offense to you guys but most of you are. And anime boys are so much more... What's the word for it....... Idk but when all their thoughts are narrated and they are sooooooooo hot in the anime us girls can't help ourselves :P (^_^)
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Wio
Not only is friendzoning a thing, but it is to everyone's advantage that they are aware of it and understand how to avoid it.
I don't actually believe it's a thing (this article explains a bit more), and therefore cannot be avoided. It's based on the principle/expectation that someone's friendship is a consolation prize for something else you actually wanted (love/sex/relationship/attention), but didn't get.
Which brings up the issue of entitlement "But I was so nice to them, did this and this this - I deserve.. " and not knowing how to deal with rejection when the person simply doesn't feel the way you do.
More specifically, the word "Friendzoned" should really just be called "Disappointment" instead.
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Originally Posted by
Ayu 「あゆ」
I don't see how it is wrong to be turned off by attractive males because you have had repeat bad experiences with them. This is the truth, and anyone who thinks otherwise is "delusional."
Yeah, because every attractive male/female are the same. Judging all of them in one basket shows me you have yet to mature enough and really need to stopping calling people delusional when in fact that post comes off as delusional. Sure, some attractive people can be greatly annoying. Though, for every annoying attractive person there is someone less attractive who is equally as annoying.
The OP is shallow. Saying this thread isn't shallow, but saying judging anime characters by looks is shallow makes your argument look as foolish as the OP. Maybe even more foolish actually.
Pay attention by the way. The OP said good looking people are bad people. You waste energy by putting up useless comments like this and calling people trolls, but not replying to her instead? Am I supposed to take you seriously?
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lily6270
Lolz same here!! That's cause we know what they're thinking and they are soooo much cuter and just seem so perfect!
But like real guys are all stuck up and eww! Well no offense to you guys but most of you are. And anime boys are so much more... What's the word for it....... Idk but when all their thoughts are narrated and they are sooooooooo hot in the anime us girls can't help ourselves :P (^_^)
Lol. Maybe guys you know are stuck up due to comments like this?