Cherishment or Love

What is more important? Cherishment or Love?

Where does it begin and where does it end? Is it nothing but a bliss and you don't have a clue why you have feelings for that person? Why do people take advantage?

People use the words "I love you" and don't even mean it.
It's a ashameful usage of those words and that people that that played with others hearts should not be forgiven.

Honestly, i shouldn't be forgiven for what I done to one of my bestfriends....

If you know what love is make sure you keep your word to it and if you love that person like you say you do then you will treat that person like they were you reason that you are alive...

Love is passionate, not hate, not jelousy, anger. But having a feeling towards something. Make sure you cherish that thing if it a person or a object cherish it, love it, honor it, adore it, and importantly love it.

both are important but definately love

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People use the words "I love you" and don't even mean it

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that is the most truthfull thing i have ever heard...but i love my girlfriend and i have been with her for 3 years and we are still as much in love as the first day so i concider love to be the more important

My answer is love just to let you guys know. I been with my Amy for 2 1/2 years and I still love her with all my heart even tho im sometimes a jerk to her.

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My answer is love just to let you guys know. I been with my Amy for 2 1/2 years and I still love her with all my heart even tho im sometimes a jerk to her.

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we can all be jerks at times but to love is the greatest thing EVER

Love is more important

Love is more important but You must not jump into things, cause if you do you'll fall head over heels and they'll realize they love someone else more ;-;

Love is many things, you cant have love with out jealousy.I love someone with all my heart and we fight all the time, but its because we care about each other and we want each other to be safe. When your in love you will fight and learn from the mistakes and move on, you will never just give up.

the most important thing to have in a relationship besides love is trust. you must learn to trust each other. secondly you must both have learned who each other is. just because we sometimes act like jerks doesnt automatically make us one. most ppl dont understand the power love has. they underestimate it just as some ppl underestimate the blessing of a soul that is whole and untarnished. i have just entered my first relationship with a certain girl and i have discovered feelings for her that i never knew i had. its normal to feel protective of her, i know. but there are some feelings for those we love we just cant explain. we will all learn in time to trust our feelings (taken from Star Wars) and learn to use them wisely, not against others

Love is so cool the other day i just feel in love with this new game that i played.

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Love is so cool the other day i just feel in love with this new game that i played.

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i dont think thats the same lol

Cherishment. Love is great for the people who find their true loves. I thought I was in love 3 times already and it didn't work once. It messed me up and forced me into the unfeeling guy that i am now. Cherishment of your friends is alot better because they will always be there, the is no way the can cheat on you and if u lose one it is no where near as painful.

It is hard to pick one on over the other, but if forced, i would say love. many people never find true love. i did. love is what keeps me hanging on. speaking of which, i love you trayn<3

i agree the major parts of any relationship are always going to be love,cherishment, trust, and determination.

Well really, love doesn't entirely work without the other. You can cherish someone and not love them, and not cherishing someone when you love them seems a little weird. I mean, they're quite a lot the same, really, and both very beautiful, mind you.

To me they both go hand in hand; cherishment, the vast amount of value you give to something and love, the undying and most beautiful way to show affection.....

Well love is a great feeling and when you care about someone so much that you would anything for that person.It makes you feel better then you could hope to feel, or even helps you get through the worst of times.But sometimes yo feel in love and it turns out that your not meant to be togethor.It is weird how love works out but i do think there is somebody out there for everyone.And i hope that everyone gets to meet that person and live there lives happy.I am gonna take some lyrics from a beatles song, but all you need is love and love is all you need.Those are very good words, that i think have a few clear messages that we can see.It is right to feel bad about doing something wrong to someone you care about.But if the person was important enough to you then there would be something you could do.I am not one of the educated people on this subject.And my feelings really do not matter, but i am just saying what i think and what i know.

I believe that if someone says they love you then they should prove it. They should do the most unbelieveable thing just so you know that it's all true and all for you.

there is love and there is hate love over exceeds hate. the reason i choose love is because there is a guy that i have loved for a long time he is not my boyfriend and he doesnt like me(i dont think) but i like him more than anything that i could emagine he is cute and funny and really sweet if only i could be with him...i love him

Its not quite as simple as that though. Sometimes people don't recognise love when they feel it, or they *think* they feel love when it could just be infatuation, or a silly crush.

Of course love is more important to me though, and sometimes when I think about how much I love my family, I find it hard that I'll ever feel something so strong for someone else. I know it sounds cheesy but even when I have a fight with them, and say horrible things and feel like I hate them with all my heart, I know I still love them. So love, definitely. That's what humans were made for isn't it?

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Originally Posted by ~kawaii~cherry~

Its not quite as simple as that though. Sometimes people don't recognise love when they feel it, or they *think* they feel love when it could just be infatuation, or a silly crush.

Of course love is more important to me though, and sometimes when I think about how much I love my family, I find it hard that I'll ever feel something so strong for someone else. I know it sounds cheesy but even when I have a fight with them, and say horrible things and feel like I hate them with all my heart, I know I still love them. So love, definitely. That's what humans were made for isn't it?

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Agreed.

From the descriptions of "True Love" I've heard, it feels like you have known that person from a previous lifetime or somthing like that.
Others have said that "Love at first sight is true love too"

I say that the latter (last) statement is incorrect. It is infatuation in most cases. Anyhow thats my :twocents:.