Emotions you raise to other people also rise to you?
This thread is more like a question than a theory I’m going to discuss here my observation to people in society and the way they treat the people around them. I notice whatever the emotion of the people they treat it also bounce back to them - like if you make other happy you too will be happy and if you make other sad you too will be sad. You might say it was a conscience but what is it exactly? And why the emotion of other people you treat also rises to you? I haven’t seen anyone who is happy when they make others sad even the evil person who done that also feels sad inside their so-called happiness to it is based on hate. And also there’s another thing that I notice: the sad emotion or depression spreads faster than the happy emotion on crowd this I have a theory and please correct me if you think I’m wrong.
Theory: Misery or sadness is easy to spread than happiness
My first idea is that people are basically happy person, self loving and lively and soft but they easily to fall in some period of their lifetime because of tragedy, sad moments or nightmare happened and the memory to this moment is stack in mind as trauma incident so after the moments here he/she is no longer lively as they was they will be depressed and the strange fact is sad memories are more easily to remember and retained than the happy memories that’s why most people are unhappy because most of their memories aren’t good and good memories are easily to be forgotten this creates depression and when they see other people in same situation they feel bad for them so my observation is: bad memories accumulates and retained more than happy memories that’s why misery spreads like wildfire over happiness over the crowd and since happy person are soft they have no power to help someone because most depressed people already closed themselves in misery and happy person has no power to make them rise the choice is always up to the misery people but some has a hard time to be happy.
Another idea is that whenever you mistreat or make someone happy it also bounces back to you whatever their emotion is. Watch - if people bully others, beat them or any mistreating the people who bully having a hard time to be happy as long as the victim is depressed we call it conscience in fact both the people who makes other misery and the one being bullied is has having more trouble to be happy. The one who being bullied closed themselves from happiness because it was already sink in their mind that their existence is negative - feel of being worthlessness, a reject, hopeless, a disease etc. and this drives them to run away from happiness as the time passes this thinking is already thick to the point that its impossible convince them to raise to their own feet and be happy and watch the people who responsible they too find themselves hard to be happy! They too feel the same way! Strange! They cannot be happy unless their victim forgives them as long as the victim sinks themselves the responsible cannot raise too.
It was a common philosophy to the anime that if you make other happy you too will be happy what I’m saying here is the opposite if you make other miserable you too feel miserable but is it really true?
Take an example of beautiful person who feel very high to him/herself because it was an accepted fact that whether you are miserable or not you will be attracted to beautiful form alone so its not surprisingly that beautiful people who feel higher than others are common. And watch if they see ugly people and happen that they mistreat them they will feel uneasy sad and also depressed they too started to reject themselves the moment the victim starts to hate themselves. And like I said before misery spreads like a wildfire over a crowd the crowd will feel sorry to the ugly ones but why they are not responsible the world conscience can only be placed to the one whom responsible but the crowd cannot be responsible and they feel bad! I think the misery that they see to the ugly victim also reminds them to their pass memories which also make them depressed.
Now this is the tragedy if the crowd itself bullied the single person then the crowd itself will also start to hate and close themselves too! This is very common to early school life this is the other point of view why misery spreads like a wildfire. And the tragedy for the one being bullied is there’s nothing to inspires him to raise and the moment he’s closed it will not just close , as the time passes it will gradually to form a lock.
This is just my view about the people’s emotion you treat is also your emotion feel free to comment and I would be happy to know your opinion too!
Feel free to see my other thread:
The play of morality and evil
http://www.animeforum.com/showthread...side-are-wrong
ego, dignity, perversion and immaturity
http://www.animeforum.com/showthread...ion-immaturity
theory: ugly people weren’t supposed to be ugly and a product of depression of ancestors and parents
http://www.animeforum.com/showthread...pinions)/page2
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>_o; So much reading and I think you have so much time on your hands to think of what to put in and your theories and... questions.
If you want my say on certain things: be nice when you have to be nice; be mean if you have to be mean; be sad if you have to be sad, and so on. Your theory of misery and sadness can spread more than happiness, eh it could happen. But I don't let someone really do that with me. Plus I think anger does it more than with any other emotion. >_>; Best example is that when my dragon-lady of a mother gets all mad, I slightly get irritated and then I get mad because she ticked me off with her ways. I just don't think it applies to only sadness and misery, though. Putting it in a simple term: it depends on how you take things. It's not exactly a theory really because everyone's different on certain things.
btw, if I'm quoted I'm not really in the mood to read so much things. x_x; It makes me sleepy.
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Well, at least I get to tell Professor Leiner I won't be needing to take his class next year, I just entered Philosophy now.
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Seung-li
>_o; If you want my say on certain things: be nice when you have to be nice; be mean if you have to be mean; be sad if you have to be sad, and so on. Your theory of misery and sadness can spread more than happiness, eh it could happen. But I don't let someone really do that with me. Plus I think anger does it more than with any other emotion. >_>; Best example is that when my dragon-lady of a mother gets all mad, I slightly get irritated and then I get mad because she ticked me off with her ways. I just don't think it applies to only sadness and misery, though. Putting it in a simple term: it depends on how you take things. It's not exactly a theory really because everyone's different on certain things.
okay but in order to prevent anyone to mistreat you you have to be strong and fight back to it right? and when you do you too feel bad right? and i think sadness and anger always go together because they belong to same type of negative emotion. btw lady are you an artist?
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Sir Yorick of Vincent
Well, at least I get to tell Professor Leiner I won't be needing to take his class next year, I just entered Philosophy now.
please don't take my thread seriously its just my personal view. I'm not a professional philosopher and i could be wrong on my theories.
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I just read the main statement you made, please keep that in mind.
So if we all read Harry Potter, how Snape was a bad being for 3 books on a row or something.
Then at the very end we all read how he was good after all.
Do you honestly believe most fans see him as THE hero now?
No. We all remembered how he trolled/tortured Harry.
Why? Because humans tend to memorize bad things over good things.
If you ask someone randomly on the street about 'Professor Snape'
I think 3 out of 4 people will say 'That strict/evil teacher right?!' or 'That creeper?!'
Another reason why people rather focus on negative things than positive things:
JEALOUSY/INCONFIDENCE. Now you must be like 'what the hell you're talking about?!'
Well, we all know that if you have a group of females, 1 far prettier/talented than the others.
(And females is just an example here, males probably do this too)
Eventually all the less pretty/talented girls end up focussing on her negative features.
Why? Because they all wanna be her and they feel awkward around her.
Unintended they all trying to put this 1 awesome female on the same level as they are themselves.
Some to soothen their own feelings/soul. Some do this when being in a fase of denial I think.
Okay, ofcourse there are people who are comfortable with themselves, like me.
But even besides that... don't we all gossip a little? I don't believe in innocent people.
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TranceLoverFilipino
okay but in order to prevent anyone to mistreat you you have to be strong and fight back to it right? and when you do you too feel bad right? and i think sadness and anger always go together because they belong to same type of negative emotion. btw lady are you an artist?
If someone mistreat me, as much as possible I stand in my ground. My way to "fight" is to not fight because that's the better way for me to win. I just do things in what I believe is the proper way. And why would I feel bad doing something right? I didn't do anything wrong except stop something what I believe is wrong, that's all.
Err... yeah I'm an artist, what does this have to do with the topic though? o_o
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Chigumi
I just read the main statement you made, please keep that in mind.
So if we all read Harry Potter, how Snape was a bad being for 3 books on a row or something.
Then at the very end we all read how he was good after all.
Do you honestly believe most fans see him as THE hero now?
No. We all remembered how he trolled/tortured Harry.
Why? Because humans tend to memorize bad things over good things.
If you ask someone randomly on the street about 'Professor Snape'
I think 3 out of 4 people will say 'That strict/evil teacher right?!' or 'That creeper?!'
Another reason why people rather focus on negative things than positive things:
JEALOUSY/INCONFIDENCE. Now you must be like 'what the hell you're talking about?!'
Well, we all know that if you have a group of females, 1 far prettier/talented than the others.
(And females is just an example here, males probably do this too)
Eventually all the less pretty/talented girls end up focussing on her negative features.
Why? Because they all wanna be her and they feel awkward around her.
Unintended they all trying to put this 1 awesome female on the same level as they are themselves.
Some to soothen their own feelings/soul. Some do this when being in a fase of denial I think.
Okay, ofcourse there are people who are comfortable with themselves, like me.
But even besides that... don't we all gossip a little? I don't believe in innocent people.
actually i didn't watch any of harry potter movies but yeah i agree on what you said. jealously and in confidence is one of the reasons why people beat other people and about being innocent in my opinion it is synonymous to being intelligent. being innocent is nothing to do with being ignorant it is about being honest to self and also... YOURE CUUUTE~ X3 awweee!!~ do you like guinea pigs X3
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Seung-li
If someone mistreat me, as much as possible I stand in my ground. My way to "fight" is to not fight because that's the better way for me to win. I just do things in what I believe is the proper way. And why would I feel bad doing something right? I didn't do anything wrong except stop something what I believe is wrong, that's all.
Err... yeah I'm an artist, what does this have to do with the topic though? o_o
i see. you have a strong heart to overcome anyone who mistreat you. kinda rare to see people like that this days. and about question if you are an artist I'm just curious because you look rich and the looks of your profile -w-
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Well. It was too long and deep. I'm a lazy reader XD
but here's one thing. I certainly believe that when you release positive energy. positive energy is reflected back.
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SakuraKiss13
Well. It was too long and deep. I'm a lazy reader XD
but here's one thing. I certainly believe that when you release positive energy. positive energy is reflected back.
korek ka dyan. kabaliktaran din yung mangyayari pag negative yung nilabas
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TranceLoverFilipino
korek ka dyan. kabaliktaran din yung mangyayari pag negative yung nilabas
yes. parang karma. however the case is the topic here is about emotion. XD
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TranceLoverFilipino
actually i didn't ... YOURE CUUUTE~ X3 awweee!!~ do you like guinea pigs X3
Uh... what the hell. What are you talking about? Me?
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Chigumi
Uh... what the hell. What are you talking about? Me?
yeah i reply to you and telling you're cute and ask if you like guinea pigs. its not related topic though -w-
