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Are "bad" guys really more appealing to girls than "good" guys?
This is a question that I've always wanted to ask the female community. Is there any truth to what guys in the internet (esp 9gag) say that being a "good" guy would make him more unlikely to attract girls? What's your take on this? Anyone can give out your opinions.
For me I...
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Every girl and boy are different and therefore has different preferences, some like bad boys, some dont. What is most common i dont know tho...
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They like evil because they are EVIL
PURGE the GIRLS
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It's simple: girls don't think with their brain; they think with their ovaries. They know it's not hard to get laid, so they don't put much effort in finding a proper mate. They'll just go with "I deserve the best, so whichever shows themselves off as better than the rest will do for me". Then they later end up realizing who they hooked up with, regret it, dump them saying typical womanish crap like "You're not the one I fell in love with" or "I just realized we're too different" then go about their miserable lives bitching "What a jerk, this is all his/her fault!".
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Dr.LeDoom!
It's simple: girls don't think with their brain; they think with their ovaries. They know it's not hard to get laid, so they don't put much effort in finding a proper mate. They'll just go with "I deserve the best, so whichever shows themselves off as better than the rest will do for me". Then they later end up realizing who they hooked up with, regret it, dump them saying typical womanish crap like "You're not the one I fell in love with" or "I just realized we're too different" then go about their miserable lives bitching "What a jerk, this is all his/her fault!".
...sounds like you've been through a lot?
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Mizukoi Kurumi
...sounds like you've been through a lot?
My experience doubles my age. I feel like an old geezer even when I walk around my peers.
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Dr.LeDoom!
My experience doubles my age. I feel like an old geezer even when I walk around my peers.
That's not good, the older you feel the older you get.
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I must be completely different than most girls, then. Guys that are considered "bad" I'm disgusted by them, I don't spend time trying to get them to like me or anything. With a guy that is good, I need to find something I will like from them of course. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, if you meet my standards, things will be fine. But nonetheless I always give everyone a chance. I don't tolerate guys who can be prone to be controlling or give a bad aura of some sort.
I bet there are guys that don't want to be pitied for bad experiences but I don't blame you being frustrated by girls out there. Personality is something I'm after, really. Looks are just a plus.
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I think bad guys tend to take more risks and are more decisive than good guys. Women probably think the former is more interesting than someone who doesn't take risks and is indecisive.
I'd guess that good guys, stereotypically indecisive and prudent, probably don't actively go out and meet women either.
Good guys are probably less interesting and in social situations with women less often. That's two strikes against them.
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It depends really
as I have found some girls who like the quiet nerdy guys like myself and there are those who prefer the opposite and there are those who just prefer the same gender as themselves. So it depends upon the person really
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as someone already said... different girls have different preferences... case closed.. in my opninion though, the kind of girls who are attracted to bad guys are not very bright.
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nathanromml
That's not good, the older you feel the older you get.
I know, right! Every time there's an event and I'm invited, I pass because I'm never in the mood. I'm even starting to walk down stairs one step at a time. And I'm getting urges to sleep at 11 PM! I need Shock Therapy or something!
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people want what they cant have. Even if they won't act on it. For example happy girl in relationship with guy, this girl is pretty n so is her man. There is a guy that doesn't find her appealing.
Its human nature and a fact, that she no matter what emotion she feels.. will be heightened to either get his attention in a good or bad way. (Girls no im not saying she is a slut n all women
think like this) I'm simply stating... ITS a fact that she would either want him to think she is cute either till he does or just in general. Not saying she gonna leave her man for him or go cheat. but every one wants to feel pretty. So she might seek a bit more attention from him then another guy that already thinks she is pretty. Facts>opinion.
(oh god i feel like im gonna get trampled lmao... REMEMBER LADIES I DIDN'T SAY SHE WAS A SLUT OR I KNOW HOW U WILL ACT IN THAT SITUATION! DONT KILL ME I HAVE A PUPPY TO FEED!)
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Seung-li
Personality is something I'm after, really. Looks are just a plus.
That's what they all say, and they probably mean it, but when on the field, they act on instinct.
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They want a big sack. If you've got a big sack, you can land any chick you want.
Source: My sack told me so.
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Well, these "bad boys" likely have plenty of drive, initiative and assertiveness. Girls seem to like someone who engages them first, and usually these outgoing bad boys fit the bill... at first sometimes. Let's face it, most "good guys" stay off to the side and just let things happen. In most cases, you know what doesn't happen? You don't get the girl. Personally, I don't understand women who say they like nice guys, but end up with the complete opposite. Half the time this bad guy is a complete jerk, which the girl later comes to regret, complain about, cry over, and take months to "get over." Good Lord, unnecessary drama there! But then again, if you don't try, you never know, right? I always thought females had this whole precognitive ability to deduce whether or not a guy is right for her in the beginning. Meh, that's hogwash though.
And if that person (could be the most unattractive wench or dude in the world) is who your heart goes after, then of course he/she will be attractive in your eyes no matter what. Initial (or superficial) attraction has it's fair share of failures. Heck, I don't want a girl who is interested in me or in a relationship with me to think "If only I were prettier, I wouldn't have to worry about losing him to another girl."
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The thing is, these "nice guys" are only nice until the girl says she isn't interested, then they freak out and talk about what a terrible person she supposedly is.
With "bad guys" maybe she feels like he can change? Maybe she loves the potential, and wants to help him? Everyone has different tastes.
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I knew this ugly guy that was a douche to girls, but they liked him back.
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nslay
I think bad guys tend to take more risks and are more decisive than good guys. Women probably think the former is more interesting than someone who doesn't take risks and is indecisive.
I'd guess that good guys, stereotypically indecisive and prudent, probably don't actively go out and meet women either.
Good guys are probably less interesting and in social situations with women less often. That's two strikes against them.
This is spot on what I was going to say. In the long run, good guys do tend to get a few good women. When older, women (hopefully) start looking for stability rather than just lust. Also, it really is a lot harder for men to flirt with women than the other way around. As a male, you are expected to be able to approach a girl in some clever way, get her to like your personality, be able to support her in any way she demands, and be attractive during the whole thing. As a semi-attractive girl, you can be a complete ditz and still get the guy to like you.
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well how does the old saying go every good girl likes a bad boy
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I think everyones preference is different... ...but, I read in a psychology book, women prefer a man who can support them. It also said guy's prefer a girl based on her looks. This study trancends cultures on every continent, according to the book.
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Seung-li
I must be completely different than most girls, then. Guys that are considered "bad" I'm disgusted by them, I don't spend time trying to get them to like me or anything. With a guy that is good, I need to find something I will like from them of course. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, if you meet my standards, things will be fine. But nonetheless I always give everyone a chance. I don't tolerate guys who can be prone to be controlling or give a bad aura of some sort.
I bet there are guys that don't want to be pitied for bad experiences but I don't blame you being frustrated by girls out there. Personality is something I'm after, really. Looks are just a plus.
I would have to agree with you on there, guys who think being a jerk and down right inconsiderate tells a lot about their parents. I mean, my nephew was trying to act all gangster like till I chucked him around a bit, and showed him how much a bad boy images does to some girls. I would rather be strict and stern if I had children, don't want them growing up to be wannabe's bad boys and harlets. And Dr.LeDoom? Not every girl on this forsaken planet is how you say they are, I rather perfer a male who's considerate, kind and caring instead of stuck up meathead.
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The reason the idea that females like bad boys is due to the fact that females like guys who are more dominant. Usually it's the bad boys who run the school, sometimes the popular boys.
In my preference I do enjoy guys with the intimidation factor because it's means he isn't a wuss for lack of a better colorful word.
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Most women like danger and excitement, even if they aren't aware of it. And that varies in degree depending on the woman and the danger/excitement they've experienced before. Clearly a hooker would need a different fix of excitement than a girl who has live a sheltered life. That's just my take. I don't buy into the whole idea that any woman wants to be treated bad, they're just willing to tolerate a lot for love, and sometimes try to convince themselves and others that they like it. I guarantee the ones that do (*coughrihannacough*) spend a lot of the time crying alone at night, though. Humans are adrenaline junkies by nature, but enjoying smack talk, being treated roughly, and being degraded is only fun when it has a beginning and an end.
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Thinking about the people I've known the good guys have actually done pretty well for themselves with the ladies.
However I think a lot of people label themselves "good guys" because they don't plan to do drugs and slap their girl around or whatever.
However:
The guy that would put off a date to raid with his guild?
The guy that pretends to be her friend so he can pull passive-aggressive emo crap to make her his girlfriend?
The guy that says they'd be a great boyfriend but really expects the girl to be an anime type submissive/domestic for his lazy self?
These are not good guys, and I find they and others with variations on those themes make up the bulk of the guys lamenting that girls don't like "good guys".
The other big group is is the really shy bunch. They might actually be good guys. But you can't complain that the fish aren't biting if you won't even go fishing.
Surprisingly, the guys that were less attractive and/or overweight have done pretty well actually.