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Re: I want an Asian Boyfriend! :D
@Xey Oiz
@SuXrys is the racist one here, not the OP. lol
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Re: I want an Asian Boyfriend! :D
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Xey Oiz
I don't think OP ever said Asian > Other races, she just wants to date an Asian guy, she said she wants to date outside of her race, who knows, it might be a new experience for her.
Without knowing anything about an asian guy and not even having an asian friend it seems... Idk... Seems like you should at least have an asian friend or two before boldly saying "YOUR RACE IS SO ATTRACTIVE I WANT TO DATE SOMEONE OF YOUR RACE!" I wouldn't judge my attractiveness of a race based off of what I see online and on TV... I'm saying this since OP admitted to living in a black community so I don't think she actually even knows a real live and breathing asian and hangs out with them often. [though this is just an assumption] Besides most of the Korean actors have a lot of silicone on them from plastic surgery.. According to an Asian I know.
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KAITOU怪盗
You guys are probably misinterpreting what she's saying. =/
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@SuXrys I also want you to explain to me.
What if the guy is Domenican/Cuban and straight African?
I mean, Domenicans and Cubans are decendent of black people but their custom are Hispanic so explain to me that. I
You can't really just choose who you are attracted to, but you can have preferances.
It's not like I can go...FROM NOW ON I WILL LIKE UGY FAT GIRLS and start falling in love with them. Impossible.
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I don't even like some Asian guys, I think it's from my own personal experience is that they can get jealous easily, too flirtatious, very conservative, and doesn't talk about their partners much out in the public, even to say something as "I'm proud I'm with her", etc. Because I've seen it all and I'm just telling my experience with Asian guys that I've met that are like that. I honestly prefer the Americans over the Asians, I've met more good Americans than the Asians, unfortunately. It's just my preference and I feel comfortable around them anyway. A while ago, my parents would "hook me up" with Asian guys, unfortunately there was just nothing. I was disgusted by him, and how I see him was that he was madly in love with his straight As than a human being.
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I understand you feel you want to expand, and try dating outside your race. Though I would not limit yourself to one race. From my experences race has very little to do with. Discovering what you have in common, and how ell you get along is the first thing that both people should do. Once you do this you'll find out regardless of race if you have chemistry. The other thing I would strongly emphisie is be friends first, and see where it goes from there. This way you'll alreayd have a relationship with the person you like. This makes it much easier to move forward from there.
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Seung-li
I don't even like some Asian guys, I think it's from my own personal experience is that they can get jealous easily, too flirtatious, very conservative, and doesn't talk about their partners much out in the public, even to say something as "I'm proud I'm with her", etc. Because I've seen it all and I'm just telling my experience with Asian guys that I've met that are like that. I honestly prefer Peruvians over the Asians, I've met more good Peruvians than the Asians, unfortunately. It's just my preference and I feel comfortable around them anyway. A while ago, my parents would "hook me up" with Asian guys, unfortunately there was just nothing. I was disgusted by him, and how I see him was that he was madly in love with his straight As than a human being.
Fixed.
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@blueangel06661 That doesn't make me a racist at all (in my head I facepalmed myself when read what you wrote. lol)... I am not even talking about me at the moment. I just said that "race" matters in the bedroom if someone is only sexual attracted so a certain "race". That doesn't have to make anyone racist. Don't overuse or use that word wrong.
Someone that isn't sexual attracted to a certain "race" doesn't have to be a racist. A racist is someone who treats other "races" horrible in a different way (and you know what I mean by that).
Not sure how to explain myself in english. But I hope you understand.
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Apparently since everyone is ignoring my last posts :(
ATTENTION EVERYONE!!!
I said I want an Asian Boyfriend does not mean I hate all other races or don't find them attractive...I never said any of this.
In fact I think i stated in my first post I like all races...some of you can't read.
And Also just because I want a boyfriend doesn't mean I don't focus on my education.
And just because I want an Asian boyfriend does not mean I just going to date a guy just because he's Asian..he must have a good personality and heart and stuff as well.
Thank you to all the people who understand me and tried to help me with this situation :)
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KAITOU怪盗
@
SuXrys I also want you to explain to me.
What if the guy is Domenican/Cuban and straight African?
I mean, Domenicans and Cubans are decendent of black people but their custom are Hispanic so explain to me that. I
You can't really just choose who you are attracted to, but you can have preferances.
It's not like I can go...FROM NOW ON I WILL LIKE UGY FAT GIRLS and start falling in love with them. Impossible.
I have never said that you can choose who you are attracted to. What on earth are you talking about right now? What have africans have to do with this?
Are you trolling?
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SuXrys
I have never said that you can choose who you are attracted to. What on earth are you talking about right now? What have africans have to do with this?
Are you trolling?
You call this trolling? Get out of AF more, please. >.>
I'm serious actually. People can't be attracted in bed to only one race or some races. That's stupid.
What you're are saying doesn't work at all...
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Xey Oiz
You guys are probably misinterpreting what she's saying. =/
This as much as anyone can misinterpreting something or anyone, lol.
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KAITOU怪盗
You call this trolling? Get out of AF more, please. >.>
I'm serious actually. People can't be attracted in bed to only one race or some races. That's stupid.
What you're are saying doesn't work at all...
Are you really serious??? Think what you want but that is how the reality looks. There are a lot people out there who are only attracted to certain looks. It is how it is, take it or leave it.
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SuXrys
This as much as anyone can misinterpreting something or anyone, lol.
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Are you really serious??? Think what you want but that is how the reality looks. There are a lot people out there who are only attracted to certain looks. It is how it is, take it or leave it.
Looks =/= Race.
You fail so hard.
Now you're making stuff up to just be right. Funny.
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KAITOU怪盗
Looks =/= Race.
You fail so hard.
Now you're making stuff up to just be right. Funny.
-sigh- I am not making up at all.
I am not a racist and it's just silly that you are saying something like that. I won't argue with you guys anymore because you guys are not listening to what I am saying, or you are just misinterpreting what I am writing (either one of those things). It's like you guys misinterpreted me from the start and now it's just a silly fight on who is "right" and who is not. I am not a racist, I actually feels offended to read that. So don't write such things again.
smh ~
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SuXrys
-sigh- I am not making up at all.
I am not a racist and it's just silly that you are saying something like that. I won't argue with you guys anymore because you guys are not listening to what I am saying, or you are just misinterpreting what I am writing (either one of those things). It's like you guys misinterpreted me from the start and now it's just a silly fight on who is "right" and who is not. I am not a racist, I actually feels offended to read that. So don't write such things again.
smh ~
Looks are still not race though.
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KAITOU怪盗
Looks are still not race though.
Well, it is in the way that every "race" looks litte different. You know what I mean by that. Oooooh gaaah! It would be easier if we could write in swedish instead. >__> anyway, let's end this now. You guys have just missunderstood me from the very start.
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KAITOU怪盗
@
Xey Oiz
I'm talking in general
Like I was talking to @
Ribbon how immature and bratty you are, and someone you scold you just slap you out of that crap but she was all "Nooooooooo he's a kid, let him beeeeee" Now look at you, more bratty and spoiled than ever.
There's a way to communicate with people without being rude or downright disrespectful. I never said OP was right, however @blueangel06661 's always dissing other people instead of politely giving her opinion.
I mean you wouldn't tell your kid to "Shut the hell up!", right?
And you wouldn't tell your kid that you hope he finds the crappiest girlfriend ever, just because he comes to you with a question about interracial dating.
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Ribbon
There's a way to communicate with people without being rude or downright disrespectful. I never said OP was right, however @blueangel06661 's always dissing other people instead of politely giving her opinion.
I mean you wouldn't tell your kid to "Shut the hell up!", right?
And you wouldn't tell your kid that you hope he finds the crappiest girlfriend ever, just because he comes to you with a question about interracial dating.
He's MY KID, so no.
I would teach him nicely.
Besides, a shut the hell up it's good if it's happens multiple times.
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KAITOU怪盗
He's MY KID, so no.
I would teach him nicely.
Besides, a shut the hell up it's good if it's happens multiple times.
Exactly. Respect works for everybody, not just your child. Blue is entitled to her own opinion and thoughts, but her choice of words and attitude is just discusting.
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Ribbon
Exactly. Respect works for everybody, not just your child. Blue is entitled to her own opinion and thoughts, but her choice of words and attitude is just discusting.
Like I said, being nice about a situation doesn't always help when it has happened multiple times.
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KAITOU怪盗
Like I said, being nice about a situation doesn't always help when it has happened multiple times.
Who says it happened multiple times, though? Last time I check the OP just posted one thread about this. It doesn't excuse her mannerism.
Here's an example:
I don't really like blue, as you know.
But it doesn't mean I spam her and tell her go die in a trench, right?
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Ribbon
Who says it happened multiple times, though? Last time I check the OP just posted one thread about this. It doesn't excuse her mannerism.
It doesn't have to be by the same person though. lol It can be by different people but with a similar situation.
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KAITOU怪盗
It doesn't have to be by the same person though. lol It can be by different people but with a similar situation.
But that isn't the OP's problem. If blue dealt with many situations like this before, she should be quiet and not post at all. Instead she chooses to purposely disrespect and diss the girl whom she doesn't even know.
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Ribbon
But that isn't the OP's problem. If blue dealt with many situations like this before, she should be quiet and not post at all. Instead she chooses to purposely disrespect and diss the girl whom she doesn't even know.
She wasn't even being that rude anyways.
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KAITOU怪盗
She wasn't even being that rude anyways.
Yes she was being rude. Telling a complete stranger that you hope they find the crappiest boyfriend ever is rude. Let's just face it, she's a rude and disrespectful person.