Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those who mind don't matter
and those who matter don't mind. -Dr. Seuss
Nobody has ever won a forum fight. You're not gonna get to page 20 and then they/you say:
"Oh my bad! You were totally right! Sorry about that misunderstanding!"
You sound like a pansy with your foolish speech. Your fiance could get smeared along the front of a bullet train and it wouldn't make a difference for he is human. Besides, it's population control so he's dying for a purpose.